My fiance and i are thinking about having kids......i already have one daughter from a previous relationship......and he would really like to have a boy......does anyone know of anything thing that can increase our chances of having one?????? thank so much.
2007-03-06 14:00:27 · 9 answers · asked by blah blah blah 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
i just want to add that being married has nothing to do with having kids....as long as you are emotionally, finacially and metally prepared to have a child....you should....marriage has nothing to do with being a good parent.....so i take offense to the person who said i should be married first....maybe you should just keep your mouth shut next time.
2007-03-06 14:45:32 · update #1
Extremely deep penetration with an orgasm can help--male sperm swim faster than female do, but they die sooner. The further up there they get, the better chances you have of getting a boy. There are also old wives tales that some women swear by. There are certain days of the month that are better for one sex or the other, depending on your cycle. You can look them up online. The best remedy that I know of is deep penetration with an orgasm for a boy.
2007-03-06 14:05:10 · answer #1 · answered by Sit'nTeach'nNanny 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to understand the basic difference between androgenic (male) sperm and gynogenic (female sperm). Males are faster but die quicker and females are slower but can stay alive longer. So if a woman gets semen in her before her ovulation, by the time the egg is actually there and ready for fertilization, most of the sperm that is still alive is female. But if the sperm get up there and the egg is already there, the faster ones will win, which will be mostly male. So the key is finding your ovulation. This can be done by charting cycles with techniques such as checking your temperature and the quality of your cervical mucous. This takes a few months of careful charting and is best learned through a qualified teacher. The scope of this topic is too broad and detailed to go into here, but you may want to look into it. So once you've determined when you ovulate, you abstain from intercourse for a few days before ovulation, and when the big day is there, go for it. I've heard of doctors who have a high success rate with this. Knowing that female sperm survive better in toxic situations (some men who work in nuclear power plants or who were otherwise exposed to radiation) father up to 90% girls!), you may also keep in mind that your mate should want to avoid these things, or any other lifestyle factors, such as drinking or smoking or pesticide use, that would lessen the survival of those fast but not as durable male sperm. There are very detailed books out there about this. You may want to check out amazon.
All of this said, if a girl wants to come she will and a healthy baby is in itself a blessing.
2007-03-06 22:16:06 · answer #2 · answered by rebecca h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have heard that having sex as close to ovulation as possible can help you get a boy. The sperm determine the sex of the child and sperm that make girls last longer inside the woman while the male sperm die. So if you have sex and the ovulate a few days later the female sperm are the only ones hanging around to fertilize the egg. Good Luck!!
2007-03-06 22:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs Adams 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, wether the baby is a girl or boy, it all depend on the guy.
I think that if the guy ate more vegetables then the chances of having a boy is more and eating more meat then the chances of having a girl is more.
2007-03-06 22:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
read the book "how to choose the sex of your baby" by dr. shettles
it tells u exactly how to improve your chances of a boy
we used it for a boy and got a girl. so no it doesnt work. but it gets you pg FAST!
2007-03-07 01:26:09 · answer #5 · answered by tryinthis2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is any secret way to get the sex of child you think you would like. I have 4 boys... can't seem to make a girl! :) they say that the chinese gender chart is right, that vaginal "environment" comes into play, that female sperm live longer than male sperm.... who knows.... you get what you get..... there is a reason for everything. :)
2007-03-06 22:07:00 · answer #6 · answered by cowgirlkolbie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The more you try for a boy, the more disappointed you'll be if it's a girl. If your fiance loved you, he wouldn't care what the sex of the baby was.
Besides, he should marry you first.
2007-03-06 22:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
The only thing that decides if you have a boy or not is if the sperm that reaches the egg had enough testosterone in it or not. If there isn't enough it will be a girl.
2007-03-06 22:06:31 · answer #8 · answered by Candace T 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
first of all ur daugter seems very cute in picture...may GOD bless her
if u wish to have baby boy...first u pray to GOD...every time ...
secondly try to have sex close to ur most fertile days...after these days try to avoid sex...
be relax...
Good Luck
2007-03-07 00:49:09 · answer #9 · answered by Good Wisher 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋