Ok so its this sexy guy at my school he dreses prep hes about 5'11 nice build actually perfect has beautiful teeth hes tanned had dark dark brown hair pretty much black and has the most amazing beautiful blue eyes his hair is just so shinnnnny a black and he has a cool fohawk he looks like a walking campaighne for Abercrombie & Fitch. He could be a model and hes the sexiest guy I've ever seen we've never talked but when I see him in the hallways or at Gym he sorta stares deep into my eyes for a few seconds like 5 or 6 seconds he hes a beautiful pretty boy but he plays tons of sports and seems straight do you think he knows im gay and is giving me a signal heyyyyy im here 2 or do you think him starring at me is just a coincidence what do you think ??
2007-03-06 13:27:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Why not just talk to him? The worst thing that could happen is he brushes you off and you'll know there's nothing there.
He sounds pretty metro just based on how he dresses, which means he's probably pretty liberal and open. You could easily approach him to ask him about where he gets his hair done, and then just add something that implies that you like the way it looks. Most people like compliments, regardless of who they are from, but if he's gay, the hair thing may reveal the tip of the iceberg. I'd say if you have caught him staring more than a couple times, there's a good chance he's interested. If he's chatty, you're in - might as well ask him if he wanted to hang out sometime.
The fact that he plays sports is completely insignificant, gay boys can play sports well also. If he has a girlfriend, that doesn't matter either, a lot of gay guys do that in high school as a way to throw off any possible suspicions.
Good luck.
2007-03-06 13:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by Josh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok...now tell us what you really think about him.
I'd look for something a bit more definitive than looking into your eyes.
In all honesty youre probably just seein what you want to see (like most people) instead of seein whats actually happening. Meaning, he could give that same look to someone who doesnt care about him, and theyll read it totally differently, but since youre obviously into him, youre readin the look the way you want to.
Doesnt sound to me like its very definitive that he digs you, but hey whatever, what the hell do I know? I'm just some random guy on the internet.
2007-03-06 13:36:39 · answer #2 · answered by Jesus W. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down a little. How would he know you're gay? Are you out? If you're openly gay, then perhaps he does already know, and is just treating you the way he would treat any potential friend. He acknowledges you with his eyes, but does he speak to you, wave hello, smile? Have you tried saying hello to him, just casually?
If you aren't openly gay, then I suggest caution. You may be misinterpreting his gaze. He may suspect that you are gay, and try to humiliate you if you even talk to him. He may be gay too, but unable to come to terms with it. In that case, he may be defensive if you even suggest that you are interested in him. Try to get to know him first as a friend. You will find out soon enough what his sexual orientation is, and what his attitudes are about homosexuality.
2007-03-06 13:47:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
total coincidence. 5 or 6 seconds staring into someone's eyes is like forever especially when you don't even know him. do the math!
2007-03-06 13:35:03 · answer #4 · answered by Active Denial System™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 10:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he thinks you're good looking.
2007-03-06 13:32:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmmmm he sounds cute
2007-03-06 13:41:57 · answer #7 · answered by ~ Lillie ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, my Oscar Wilde, he doesn't seem to be in for you to develop any relationship that you've in mind.. leave him alone.
2007-03-06 13:40:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your hormones are out of control :)
2007-03-06 13:44:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow he sounds so handsome
2007-03-06 13:30:54 · answer #10 · answered by Tara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋