Is that ok!?!?! he's my bff's older bro! he's the coolest person ever!!! and i know nothing is going to happen but still.....oh!!! and i had a dream about him!!! while i was over my bff's house! kinda weird..ne ways yeah!!! and its so weird b/c we have so much in common... and i told my father apparently too many times that i think hes totally awesome!! ne ways wut does that mean!? thanx preciate it a lot! <3 peace p.s. i dont think he knows i like him like that but since hes 19 he probably can tell. and nothing did happen cuz that guy is just not like that at all i've known him like for 4 years so don't think sumthing happened.k? good!
2007-03-06 13:21:00 · 6 answers · asked by ~Bubblii~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and i know its illegal.... and if ur being a wiotch to my bff's bro then you can jus shut up.ooo and nothing would happen until in like three years.its more of a crash than ne thing...
2007-03-07 06:22:49 · update #1
oh an di'm not the only one of my friends who like him.juss to let u know!
2007-03-07 06:24:33 · update #2
Hate to say this, but it is either "puppy love" or if you really feel for this guy you better wait 3 years. You don't want to get him into deep crud you are total Jailbait! 4 years isn't a big age difference when you are an adult such as myself, but at your age dear you need to look at other guys too.
I had a HUGE crush on my neighbor I was 14 & he was 18 at the time. I held onto that crush for 3 years. I look back now & it was just "Puppy Love"
2007-03-06 13:29:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a crush, it is ok to have a crush and have dreams about him, but his is a little old and your BFF's brother which is usually not a good idea. Keep dreaming but one day you will find someone more your age that you will have even more in common with and it will be more than a crush.
2007-03-06 21:26:46 · answer #2 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is gonna hurt...a 15 and 19 year old have too many barriers. It will be best for both of you to not like him. Maybe in 3 years, your experiences will be closer and you can get in touch. Try to stay away for now.
2007-03-06 21:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by intrigue899 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal and okay to have a crush on an older guy, but it's not okay to act on it. If he's a nice guy, you would embarrass him, and you don't want that.
Just try and find some other interests so you don't spend all your time thinking of this.
2007-03-06 21:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's okay. Although it seems like a huge gap, the difference isn't much of a factor as you grow older.
2007-03-06 21:25:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are handling it OK--it won't be as much of an age difference in 10 years, but for now, it's not OK. (There's a reason for laws against statuatory rape.)
2007-03-06 21:27:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋