Pregnant? please help-im so worried!?

Question

We didnt use protection. I only had my underwear on. He didnt enter me but we came close to. I was so stressed about it because i know that women can become pregnant without intercourse so i took the m.a.pill. Ive had some pregnancy tests since and theyve all come out negative yet i know that they arent always accurate. Ive had three periods but. to me, because ive been so stressed and worried, i dont know if theyre normal-i know that some people have light periods even when theyre pregnant. I dont feel different physically. Ive been told that i probably am not pregnant but im really worried i am- what are the signs of pregnancy and the symptoms at 3 months in- please give me some advice-i dont know what to do and what i should be thinking. Thankyou in advance.

Answer 1

I wouldn't worry that much about being pregnant. Your chances are between slim and none at this time. YES- you can get pregnant without actually having sex so you need to be careful if you are not looking to get pregnant but by now you would have symptoms and probably would have missed a period or had strange periods and most likely would have tested positive on a test. YES there are people who have their periods all through pregnancy and yes there are people who never test positive on a pregnancy test but think of it this way..... A couple at the right age for childbearing who are both healthy and have sex under the best circumstances to conceive at the peak ovulation time only have a 20% chance of getting pregnant. You have a TON more "if" factors so I would say you are probably just nervous. Relax and get some birth control if you aren't wanting a baby. Good Luck!!!

Answer 2

Hi there, please stop feeling so worried there really is no need to be. I completely understand why you are, because obviously pregnancy is the last thing you want and seeing you feel you became at risk off falling pregnant you feel overly concerned the worst has happened. I can tell by all you have described it has not however.I will try to set your mind at ease for you. The fact you had your underwear on and he didnt actually enter you, although doesnt cancel the risk dramatically lowers the risk to begin with. You took the morning after pill - if you had been at any risk if you used this correctly than it is very highly effective and would have worked in any case. It is only very rare it does not. You have had 3 periods since - although some women do continue to bleed throughout pregnancy it is not overly common and a period generally denotes you are not pregnant. Although you can have a symptom free pregnancy and negative test results it again is not very common. You would have probably begin to experience breast tenderness or enlargement, tiredness, aversion to smells foods etc, nausea or vomiting, frequent urination....
I do understand the risk was there - but it was such a low risk and there are so many signs against you actually being pregnant it seems certain you are not.
Maybe it will help to visit your doctor who can take a blood test which are highly sensitive and can detect pregnacy soon after conception - the results are very accurate, so maybe it will set your mind at rest to have this test carried out to assure you you arent pregnant.
Please dont worry, you will be fine, take care of yourself x

Answer 3

Well you do have to enter all the way, if you took the morning after pill that should have worked, if you took some test since and they came out negative then there probaly right, if your not sure you should see a doctor. But I do know stress can affect the way you are feeling. You could worry about it so much that your body will have the pregnancy signs I've done that before. hope that helps

Answer 4

It's very unlikely you're pregnant. Doing a blood pregnancy test should ease your mind if you're really worried. However, as a doctor, I can tell you that if you came into the office and gave a history of having three periods, we really would'nt be worried about you being pregnant. We'd do the serum blood test, but I wouldn't bet on it being positive.

Anyway, if you were 3 months pregnant, any pregnancy test would definitely be positive, and a fetus would be easily seen on ultrasound or heard with a fetal heart doppler.

Answer 5

I'd say that there is more chance of your boyfriend being preggers than you sweetheart. It's very, very unlikely especially as you didn't actually have sex, you've taken the morning after pill and had 3 periods since.

What I would say (and I'm sorry for being so personal) is that you really aren't ready for sexual activity yet. If you're going to get this stressed 3 months after you DIDN'T have sex then you need to knock it on the head for while until you feel a little more emotionally ready for the responsibilities of a sexual relationship.

Answer 6

So to recap:
- You didn't actually have sex
- You took the morning after pill
- You have taken pregnancy tests and all negative
- You have had your period
- You have no pregnancy symptoms

I would personally bet all my life savings on the fact that you are NOT pregnant. I know you are worried, but there is absolutely no way that you are pregnant, No way at all, not even the remotest chance!

Answer 7

if you were pregnant it would definetly show up on a pregnancy test by now and if you have had three periods then your probably not pregnant. You usually do not have a period at all but if you do it is only one really light one. Good Luck!

Answer 8

i would say that u will be ok. i have been down that road my self. and i know what u are going through. its ok people saying on this that u are ok but its still at the back of your mind. stressing is not good for u. as this can make your body change. best thing to do it get checked up. just to clear your mind. and then u will feel better.

but really i don't think u have any worry. hope this helps Hun

Answer 9

if he didnt go all the way inside you you are not pregnant! sperm isnt that strong! especially if you took the morning after pill aswel your chances are very minor!!!! your periods probably havnt been normal coz youve been worried! if you were pregnant you'd be tired, feeling sick,your boobs would be tender, naming just a few symptoms, trust me you'd know! dont worry about it, if your that worried go get a test and it'll put your mind at rest x

Answer 10

If you are really worried go to the doc and have them do blood test so you know for sure.

Signs of early pregnancy.
-nauseated (especially in am)
-dizzy/light headed
-more tired than ususal
-tender breasts

Good luck