i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend and didnt bleed...is that odd? i dont really know whats normal. i was always told i would but didnt. is there something wrong?
2007-03-06 13:07:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
don't worry, I had the samething. HAHA...was just about to ask the samething, but not everyone bleeds! be happy! no sheets stained!
2007-03-06 13:49:30 · answer #1 · answered by birdbeach19 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a virgin means you have never had sex before. So since you had sex - you're not a virgin! The hymen is usually ruptured when you are being born or, if not, then a long time before you even know what sex is. The whole "bleeding" thing is an old wives tale with 0% truth and has nothing to do with your virginity.
2007-03-06 21:20:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. If you didn't bleed, that means you didn't have a hymen, which is totally normal. Nowadays especially, girls often lose them well before they have intercourse for the first time through normal activity. Tampons have taken a few maidenheads, and I lost mine to my bike when I was seven (it hurts girls just as much to fall on that metal bar, believe me!). That doesn't mean you weren't a virgin before, and not bleeding doesn't mean you are a virgin now. Virginity has to do with a lack of experience, and you now have experience. Congrats!
2007-03-07 01:00:58 · answer #3 · answered by random6x7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard of that happening in extreme cases. Sometimes a childhood injury can cause damage. You are probably fine. Lack of blood is not usually a problem, excessive bleeding is. A woman's body is so complex, you just never know. If you are concerned at all...visit your doc. It is always good to get an educated opinion.
2007-03-06 21:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by jewels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't bleed it's ok, you probably ripped your hymen doing something else.. (riding a horse, bike something other that is random) Every girl experiences something different so don't worrry = )
2007-03-06 21:11:09 · answer #5 · answered by Chiquita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone bleeds. It's perfectly normal not to.
2007-03-06 21:11:03 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Informed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, It's normal...
Different body types...
So it's different reactions. :)
No worries.
Enjoy your self & love your life!
2007-03-06 21:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by It's Just me.... Kiwi :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋