my friends kindof annoying but i dont want to tell her that waht should i do?
2007-03-06 12:51:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She will never know that she is annoying you unless you tell her...as kindly as possible. She probably has NO idea that she is bugging you...remember, she is not a mind reader. Just be very gentle when you tell her. You may want to mention the things about her that you really like,too. Good luck. I'll leep my fingers crossed for you.
2007-03-06 12:53:45 · answer #1 · answered by I am Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're probably clingy, right? Sigh, I had this same situation too. She's just so ANNOYING she won't leave you alone? You don't want to hurt her? And you have the ONE FRIEND that's had enough (or you could BE that friend). And some other friend is optimistic? Yeah, that's me.
The truth is, you NEED to come clean or you'll be stuck with this friend FOREVER. Leave them a note or just tell it to them straight. Be blunt and you might be able to start a fresh, new, better, more truthful relationship. If it doesn't work out, they don't deserve to be your friend. They need you more than you need him, ok? Just remember that and you'll be fine.
2007-03-06 12:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by My Name Doesn't Fit Here 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her nicely....Thats the only way. Or when she is being anoying ell her what she is doing so she can catch herslf..i had the same problemo and it worked or u could write a leter
2007-03-06 12:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by wakeupcall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That pal may be jealous of you and you may locate yet another pal or 2. i know it may be much less annoying reported than carried out, yet attempt to no longer permit one individual separate you from something of your acquaintances. possibly she in basic terms needs a competent speaking to, to verify what her concern is and if area of the difficulty is you, you'll be able to could tone it down a splash. additionally talk flippantly to 3 of you different acquaintances and see how they sense.
2016-09-30 07:36:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sort of ignore her or walk away frmo her when she starts bugging you and eventually shell get the message. send her subtle messages that you dont really want to hang out with her or that shes being annoying.
2007-03-06 12:54:32 · answer #5 · answered by Ava 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how u feel, better u then sombody else, and if she gets mad at u for trying to help FORGET HER
2007-03-06 12:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by Krystal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can annoy her like i did to my ex friend cuz she gets into everybodies business like (whats goin on, what) like gosh just ******* shut the hell up ***** and leave me alone.
2007-03-06 13:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its best to tell someone that some habit of theirs annoys you.
peace
2007-03-06 12:55:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is annoying some times, even you. so unless it is in excess then let her be her.and you control you.
2007-03-06 12:57:00 · answer #9 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her she gets on your nerves sometimes, you care about her but you want to be honest
2007-03-06 12:56:30 · answer #10 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋