ok so next friday theres this guy spending the night but hes my best friend and we went out twice and still love each other. pretty much were like soul mates . he said that he even wants to have kids and get married. hes the only guy that gives me these feelings i feel hes the one. so should i lose my virginity to him he wants to lose it to me?should i do "something" with him? i love him. what should i do? i seriously need help!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-06 12:49:04 · 9 answers · asked by girlwithq's 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im 16 and very mature and we dated twice . ok.
2007-03-06 12:56:36 · update #1
Well.... should you lose your virginity??? I say... if you loooove him and you are at a reasonable age (17 and up) then sure... why not!?
HAVE FUN! (use protection... just in case u didn't know.. but i'm sure ya did.)
SO... UR 16? A couple of my friends lost their virginity at that age. I don't know now..... are u sure that ur IN LOVE with him? Its a little young for u to really know. But listen to ur heart not me... i can't tell you what to do... i can only give you advice.
2007-03-06 12:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't do it. Hormones are racing at your age, but it's not worth it to loose your virginity just because you guys are great friends. You are not the same person at 16 that you will be at 26, and when you give your body and soul to someone you can never give it away again. Take your time, this talk about kids and marriage at this early an age is just too serious. Wait.
2007-03-06 21:07:20 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?!
and you've only been on two dates. though you guys are best friends, i advise you not to give up your virginity. it's very dangerous, and i have seen many times where they do "something" and then the guy leaves her cuz he finds out she's pregnant.
if you're 110% sure that you're making the right choice, go right ahead. but think about what could happen.
2007-03-06 20:53:52 · answer #3 · answered by vanessahudgensfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if I was spending th e night there and knew I was getting saome I would tell you that I wanted 500 kids and wanted to get married to you next week . Would you sleep with me? But it depends on you and if you believe him. And if you do have sex withhim I hope he stays with you not just not call you from teh next day on.
2007-03-06 20:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves you that much, he will be more than willing to wait till you are 100% sure of what you want. anything worth having is worth waiting for. my gf gave her virginity to me and i waited for an extremely long time (in fact most people call me a fool for waiting so long); i never knew when or if she was going to have sex with me but i didn't matter because i loved her. i would of waited forever for her. don't do anything stupid. think before you act.
2007-03-06 21:18:50 · answer #5 · answered by optcynbassist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, if i had a dollar for everytime i met a mature 16 year old, i would be broke
you are 16 and have no business talking about getting married or having kids
go ask your mother or father
2007-03-06 21:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont know how old you are, so I cant give you a realistic answer.
2007-03-06 20:53:49 · answer #7 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really loved you and meant all those things, i think he could wait till marriage. if you have any doubts, don't do it.
2007-03-06 20:53:55 · answer #8 · answered by plum_145 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
and this one time at band camp
2007-03-06 20:53:37 · answer #9 · answered by Steve B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋