I have a best friend and we've been best friends for 5 years now. Ever since we didnt have the same classes together anymore, we've drifted apart. I hung out with my friends and she would hang out with her friends but she wont talk to me anymore, leaving me with nothing. She ingores me when i say hi and shes a terrible listener.
My other friends and me are kinda deep, we like to talk about open conversations and be all mellow while her and her other friends go and act perky and dress up and play barbies or whatever. She didnt invite me to her other birthday but she did to her other friends. Why wont she email or talk to me anymore? I dont email her anymore either but we're chaning.
She kinda gets on my nerves too, she acts like i'm nobody and i dont know why i still want to be her friend, whats the problem? Everytime i see her, i think she's so annoying.
2007-03-06 12:46:40 · 16 answers · asked by glamourous_aspen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
In life, sometimes we grow away from our friends. We no longer share things in common, we drift apart, that's life.
But the beauty of it is that it makes room for more friends. It's OK to have more than one best friend.
If you guys truly are best friends, you will rekindle your friendship down the road. Just focus on the friends you have contact with now and learn to cherish those.
2007-03-06 12:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by fenway2k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I totally understand you my best friend and I are going tho the same, Well something like that she feel that we don't connect because she has two kids and I have none; but I love her and there is nothing I would not do for her. So this is the way I feel you know the old say if you love something let it go and if I comes back It means so so much more. BUT BUT if it don't at least you know that you had to go tho that in order to grow. So take it as something you learned from and go on life is going to go on with you or without you. That don't mean for you to be mean to her and act like she don't matter because she do she was there when no one else was so just keep cool and be there if she needs you and you will get it back in return.
2007-03-06 12:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by tialovestia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, I think your best friend is moved on :'(
She has found a group who she thinks she fits in more with, it sounds more of the "popular" group, and sadly she's fallen in the category of people who leave their real bestfriends just to be popular! It's quite sad, I think if she has moved on you should to.
There's no reason for you to go and act desperate for her as much as you may miss her, she obviously couldn't care less which is just mean but yeah. I think just stick with the friends you have now, I'm sure people go through different best friends. I know I have, I thought it was going to be really hard, but soon enough I found the 2 greatest best friends ever!
Goodluck & Have A Nice Day :-)
2007-03-06 12:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by MOVED! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, although my best friend and I have been miraculously surviving as Freshmen with no classes or lunch together. The thing is, though, we're going to drift apart at some time, and it'll happen, if not now. Just hang tight with your friends you've made and it'll probably hurt, but just remember that it was bound to happen.
2007-03-06 12:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by Rawr_Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 16:52:58 · answer #5 · answered by condon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is hard..and you will loose many friends in your life time...i have gone through it...and it is hard and it hurts but sometimes you jsut have to let go
and everytime you see her you are gonna think of all the good times that you guys had together...
and that is why you still want to be her friend...because you no how it used to me and you want that again....everytime i see my old bestfriend i get annoyed like why did she do that we were such good friends but then i have to remember that people change and i can't hold on to the past..
so just let it go...it sounds like you have a bunch of great friends jsut stick with them...
good luck and bod bless.... :)
2007-03-06 12:56:22 · answer #6 · answered by bballgurlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people change i guess for the better. so its best that you stop trying to go out of your way to even glance , say hi , smile. its just your waste of time. if she sees you enjoying your life without her and youre too busy knowing shes there , she just might come back around to say hi , but thats not what i called friendship. good luck.
2007-03-06 12:52:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, this was one of those things.. where the answer is right nad fornt of you adn all you had to do was write it all out, adn get the anger out. Do you feel better? lol.. Just forget her and move on. It is life it happens.. stick up for yourself adn don't waste the energy on people who won't evne give you the time of day.
2007-03-06 12:50:55 · answer #8 · answered by Twinkles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel, something like that happened to me, in the end we ignored each other went on with our lives, one of them acts as if i don't exist, and the other one we don't really see each other, if we do we ignore each other unless we are forced to interact. Just make new and better friends.
2007-03-06 12:51:52 · answer #9 · answered by soso123845 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pshh, i know what you mean. thats happened to me before. if you see her alone just go up to her and ask in a concerned voice whats wrong. if she says nothing then tell her you know somethings bothering her and that you will listen if she wants to talk. if she still doesn't care then screw her. you don't need her.
2007-03-06 12:52:04 · answer #10 · answered by lovebug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋