Turn ons:
--nice smile
--sense of humor that isn't based on put-downs
--honest; wouldn't lie to me
--lots of hair, everywhere; wouldn't dream of shaving it, except maybe face
--intelligence; values education
--REALLY listens to me
--likes my friends and family and my cat
--accepts me as I am; doesn't try to change me
--vegetarian is a plus; cares about animals and the environment
--thinks for himself and doesn't insist I agree with him 100% of the time
--thinks I'm great!
Turn offs:
--smokes or uses drugs or drinks too much
--whiney
--control freak
--critical of everybody; blames others for his mistakes
--brags about his penis
--makes racial slurs or other prejudiced comments
--potty mouth
--doesn't keep himself clean
--likes rap or heavy metal
--fundamentalist of any religion
--spends a lot of time looking in the mirror
--dropped out of school
--wants sex before commitment
2007-03-06 15:33:20
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answer #1
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answered by Maple 7
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Turn Ons:
Body: Taller (5'10'' and above), muscle tone, any skin color but ORANGE from fake tanning.
Hair: anything that is groomed- even the stylish bed head look because it's obviously styled. Grooming yourself (including your eyebrows, side burns, and hair on the back of your neck) makes a HUGE difference in a good way! If you don't pluck your eyebrows, you should start. It's not gay in any way.
Clothing: I prefer a simple casual/dressy style. Combining a pair of boot cut dark jeans with a nice sweater or shirt is a great look for any guy. I also like the whole odd print and pink style that's in. Anything that looks nice and casual at the same time- think Bannna Republic.
I like a guy who is very intelligent and isn't afraid to have intellectual conversations with me. I like it when the guy is confident and isn't afraid to take charge while at the same time, is comfortable letting me take charge in certain situations.
I value honesty in guys. I would be much more apt to date a guy who told me "yes, those jeans make your butt look big" rather than "no, you look great!". If a guy can't be honest about the little things then he probably won't be honest when it comes to the big things. Being honest is a sign of respect- don't ever let a woman tell you that you are a jerk for being honest!
Finally, every girl loves a guy who is romantic and good at sex. A guy who is good at sex is a huge turn on. A guy who can "make out" with a girl a few times before trying oral or vaginal sex is a HUGE turn on.
Turn offs:
Fake tanning, skinny men, men who don't seem to care about their appearance, fake personalities, lying, one interest:sex, low self esteem, unnaturally large muscles with large veins.
2007-03-06 23:37:51
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answer #2
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answered by Erin H 3
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Personally, I like a gentleman. A guy who lets you go first, is polite, respectful, does the little things that means he cares, while not being too overbearing.
Also, the guy can't be stick thin, abs and biceps are good.
Well-groomed. Shower and shave regularly. You'd be surprised how many guys have bad hygeine.
Loose and clean-cut clothing.
Above all: nice hair =]
2007-03-06 21:50:16
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answer #3
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answered by Anonymous
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hi
My turn ons are :
Honesty , caring , loving , positiveness , patience , good hygiene , neat in appearance , sensitive , a great listner , passionate , romantic , goal oriented , hairy body , tall , well groomed ,color does not matter , common sense , nice body but not to thin , affectionate , great kisser , good lover . lover of GOD and morals .
turn offs are :
Fakeness , lying , negetivity , bad communicator , ignorance , stupidity , bad breath .
C
2007-03-07 10:24:00
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answer #4
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answered by Constance M 4
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I like guys who like pay attention to me, and I can talk to, but not in like a corny way, you know? And funny, they've got to have some sense of humor, but a turn on for me is someone who definitle plays some sort of physical sport (no golf, ping-pong etc.etc.) and another turn on is a guy who knows what he wants, and like isn't too too sexually aggressive, but just a bit.
2007-03-06 20:56:03
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answer #5
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answered by Anonymous
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long skater hair (shaggy hair) uhh a fit body abbs and a good clean face and a good smile and charming eyes =D lolz
2007-03-06 20:51:59
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answer #6
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answered by Bre 1
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nice body.(muscle)........nice smile......sense of humor.....easy to talk to.........romantic..........and a great body massage is great.
2007-03-06 23:03:40
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answer #7
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answered by ice 2
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