Ladies I know what your thinking. And no I'm not to old to know. I'm 17 and I'm graduating from High School in 2008. I've been dating my boy friend since I was about 13 when I first got to middle school. He's never cheated on me or anything like that. He's a year and a half older than me. He'll be graduating this year. And I'm going to be his date for the prom(awww) and we've talked about doing the deed on prom night. So, Does Sex Hurt? And how do you ride the cowboy?
I should know about this things. I'm Captain of the Varsity Cheerleading Squad and Princess of HomeComing so yeah, I should know about this but...... I don't. So..... Ladies please help me. Thanks:)
2007-03-06 12:33:28 · 8 answers · asked by LiJDivine ♥s MJ 5 in Health ➔ Women's Health
your first time may hurt a bit but after its in it will will be fine:] and even if it does hurt a little just tell your boyfriend to slow down and take it easy i'm sure he wont mind seeing as he isnt an asshole lol riding the cowboy hmm haha that could mean woman on top:] you should have some fun that night haha just have him teach you different positions, before i knew like a few positions and i was nervous for my first time but afterwards i asked my bf to tech me new things then i totally came out of my shell when i surprised him with my new positions and tricks:] good luck hunny sounds like you got a special guy!
2007-03-06 12:56:52 · answer #1 · answered by mypupismylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you have weighed your options and are on birthcontrol and I am hoping your parents realize how serious you 2 are. Please, please use condoms to be on the safe side for many reasons. Sex might hurt some the 1st time and you might even bleed. I believe that will depend on if you had much manual stimulation.
Riding cowboy style or however you put it is when the woman sit up on the guy and rides. I imagine for a girls 1st time that that'd be too embarrasing for you to attempt. Sex could also change your relationship with this boy so please be careful mentally and physically and abstinence is really the best practice until marriage, as I am sure you've already been told.
2007-03-06 12:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my first time hurt a lil, not unbearable tho, once u are relaxedand the guy is gentle then it shouldnt hurt that much.
Riding the cowboy is easy and fun, but i wouldnt suggest u try it the first time cuz it will b very painful, but in the future when ur doing it, just gyrate ur hips to whatever rhythm u feel more comfortable with...and u and ur boyfriend will love it
Dont worry if u dont get it right the first time, u'll gt betta with experience:)
2007-03-06 12:42:28 · answer #3 · answered by Diamond Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never had sex, I'm only 18 myself, but it makes sense for it to hurt the first few times because you're breaking the hymen and you're stretching the vaginal walls. So it will hurt.
Riding the cowboy I believe is why you sit on his thing, and well...ride him, you're incharge.
Don't rush having sex, it's not so special if you plan to have sex, it better just to let it happen to you, right place, right time, right mood.
You could always keep waiting until you're married?
2007-03-06 12:41:55 · answer #4 · answered by toronto_leafs 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your first time will probably hurt a little, but it won't be anything too bad. After a couple of times you'll enjoy it though especially if you're with someone you love. Just ask him to be gentle for your first time. Good luck, have fun!
2007-03-06 14:06:24 · answer #5 · answered by S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it hurt a lot, people wouldn't be so crazy about it. Use protections. You don't want a kid at your age. For position ideas, see the sites below...
2007-03-06 15:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by adanarama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AM 39 YRS OLD AND A VIRGIN SO
DON'T RUSH INTO WANTING TO HAVE SEX ..SAVE YOUR SELF FOR A MAN WHO WILL TRULY LOVE YOU ..LIKE I AM SAVING MYSELF FOR THE RIGHT WOMAN .
2007-03-06 12:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by Swm 39 4 Younger Swf Forever 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
its a little thing called...
ABSTINENCE.
2007-03-06 13:16:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋