I have dated a girl who has really messed my head head up...I think my girlfriend is nutz! She has broken up with me and come back about 15 times in the last three months. She is torn between me and her parents...she is 27 years old and does not want to leave home. She is afraid her parents will be too sad if she leaves. Is it me or is this retarded?
How do I get over her..I love her so much, but it just can't work..i dont know where to turn?
2007-03-06 12:23:51 · 5 answers · asked by fuji 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She has a real problem letting go of mommy & daddy. I don't think that's the life you want.
What is it about her that you love so much?
Tell her to take a month to think about what she wants. No contact. Then see what happens.
2007-03-06 12:29:08 · answer #1 · answered by ♣Hey jude♣ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said you love her but scold her nutz? Think the both of you really need to think through whether to carry on like this.. take time to really sort things out calmly...only you can decide whats next with the both of you.
if you decide to let go, stop communicating with her. Because she is not those type that will disconnect herself totally from you first(from the way you describe her).... dun contact her anymore... let time heals the both of you.. yes, it will nt be easy at first, but its for the benifit of both.
If you still love her and want to continue this realtionship, TALK TO HER, sort things out k?
good luck!
2007-03-06 20:41:43 · answer #2 · answered by Josephine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that boat is basically a sinking ship. stay with her and she'll take you down with her. she'll bring all her baggage to you. after 27 yrs. if she can't let go of them, she never will. it's retarded, use your brain, let her go.
2007-03-06 22:00:46 · answer #3 · answered by optcynbassist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not return her calls, dont talk to her, run away you can find someone better. Have her watch failure to launch.
2007-03-06 21:07:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) move into her house so that you can be with her, & she can be with her parents
2)run
3)check both of you into the funny farm
2007-03-06 20:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by Dreamweaver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋