Is it possible for a 19 year old girl who only crushed on guys in high school to one day crush on a girl there for being bi?
2007-03-06 12:21:01 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
yes.
and consider this: not all crushes are truly sexual. it is possible for a person to have a crush on another person, and then think that they are supposed to want sex with them. But in actuality, they don't want sex with them. Example (though I am NOT a fan of hers): Rosie O'Donnell's crush on tom Cruise. She really had a crush on him, but it wasn't sexual.
2007-03-06 13:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it's possible. I know many women who have been with guys through high school and beyond, some of them in long relationships. Then they happen to be attracted to a woman (or women) and that's it. Most of them were not completely satisfied in relationships with males and found a relationship with a woman more fulfilling. Just because a girl crushes on another girl one day doesn't necessarily mean she's bi. She's bi if she knows that she is definitely comfortable and happy in a relationship with a guy or a girl.
2007-03-06 12:47:27 · answer #2 · answered by musikchik 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is possible. The 19 year old may have only just realized she is bi.
2007-03-14 06:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. In high school boys and girls 'go with the flow' and get 'ga-ga' eyed over the opposite gender.
You date those of the opposite gender as the way it's done in high school.
That at least causes frustrations, then when you're out in the real world your own gender still appeals to you and you're in a better position to give it more serious thought.
The interesting thing is, two girls making love seems less odious to society than two guys doing each other.
2007-03-13 06:19:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone said something about "turning" gay...there's no such thing, you either are or you're not.
Anyways, you are allowed to have crushes on anyone you want, it can happen to anyone. If you act on it, and like it, then you should think about the possibility that you might in fact be bisexual or gay or curious or whatever you might think.
The most important thing is to be sure of how and why you do the things you do to and with your body. Remember that your body feels things that are right and things that are wrong and it lets you know which ones you should choose. It up to you.
You're whatever feels right to YOU.
2007-03-13 12:52:36 · answer #5 · answered by Fashionista 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's possible. You are young and learning about yourself. I didn't realize until I was in my late 20s that I like women. You may be bisexual or just bicurious. You're not automatically bi just because you have a crush on another girl. Experiment and learn who you are. Don't be so quick to label yourself. Good luck.
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2016-11-28 03:04:27 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible.
2007-03-14 00:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by mloinc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible, maybe she had not have good relationships with guys, and a girl starts given her what she was expecting to feel.
2007-03-06 12:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by Jonathan M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes
2007-03-06 12:36:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋