Yea ok. So I had a boyfriend for about 6 months and I told him I am an adopted child before too. But last week I told one of my friends Ryan that I was adopted and Ryan told him. But I didn't really care because I thought I already told him. So the next day he called me and asked if I was adopted and I said yea. So then he said Ohh. Then tge next day he broke up with me. And my bestfriend is Ryan and he asked him why he did? And he said because I was adopted. So that kinda made me sad. Then it's been a week since then and I have ignored him because I thought it was rude. So I don't talk to him but he still knows my cellphone number and he called and asked me out again. And I asked Ryan what to do and he told me it really depends on me. Should I say yes or no?
I am confused and I am not retarded or anything. I just want to make the right choice because I liked him a lot.
If this to long sorry.
2007-03-06 11:54:52 · 15 answers · asked by emily 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Like the book: "He is just not into you". Sounds like he is making LAME excuses. He sounds like a complete horse's rear end! Move on to someone better, girl!!
2007-03-06 12:38:35 · answer #1 · answered by Carrie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him where he lands. If he's so shallow that he dumps you because your adopted its obvious he doesnt care much for you.
Its possible that this wasn't about a single issue but rather its the straw that broke the camels back, was he acting ok before he this incident? Have you had previous arguments? When he called again, did he apologize? Trust your own instincts, you've been ignoring him for a reason.
2007-03-06 20:26:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should say no out right no he hurt u Hun he dumped u just because u was adopted i mean come on what a creep then he lets u hurt for a week then he rings u out of the blue when your getting use to having your own life without him in it and now his trying to set off from where u left off that's not fair cause that would be like saying that all that hurt and pain was for nothing no matter how much u still love him no bloke is worth all that pain stay strong good luck
2007-03-06 20:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by Helen P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is based souly on trust if this guy trusted you in the first place you would still be together now right .
This guy doesn't trust you for who you are i would say no and fine someone better and with more feeling than this jerk.
MOVE ON YOU CAN DO BETTER
2007-03-06 20:08:24 · answer #4 · answered by luckylovelee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if you are adopted? Look, I guy that REALLY cares about you will love you for who you are and not your family circumstances, if you know what I mean by that. By the sounds of it, this guy isn't worth your two cents.
2007-03-06 21:35:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa, before you go traipsing into town to look for the B-52, lets think a little here first...
are her periods regular? are they every 28 days? where was she in her cycle? If she was not around 11-14 days in between, she may not have anything to worry about.
i agree, it may have been a little irresponsible, and hopefully she learned from this episode, but answer these questions before you go off into town.
2007-03-07 00:05:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, the ex is a retard.
Just because you're adopted doesn't mean you're,like, diseased or something.
Go out with friends, and blow him off like he did you.
2007-03-06 20:07:10 · answer #7 · answered by Lauran B. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it would be nice if he needs to apologize to you before you go out with him again. But if he did not hurt you, then it is all good and you should forgive and forget without the apology. What do you think?
2007-03-07 03:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by ERIC W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PEOPLE TEND TO BE AFRAID OF WHAT THEY DONT UNDERSTAND. THAT DOES NOT MEAN YOURE A FREAK BUT HE DID NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO ABOUT THE SITUATION. SEEMS TO ME THAT HE DID NOT DO ANY THING TILL HE KNEW THAT SOME ONE ELSE KNEW ABOUT IT. HE WAS SKARED THAT HE MIGHT GET RIDICULED BY YOU BEING ADOPTED. TELL HIM TO QUIT HATING AND TELL YOU THE TRUTH. DOES HE REALLY LOVE YOU ENOUGH TO BYPASS THE FACT THAT YOURE ADOPTED, OR BE EMBARASSED ABOUT YOU.
2007-03-07 00:28:25 · answer #9 · answered by JUAN V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand you might have had some strong points in your relationship before, but he was being predjudice. If he hurt your feelings, then I don't think you should just let that by!
2007-03-06 19:58:51 · answer #10 · answered by Princessofpie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋