i cant stop thinking about the memories me and him have had together. Also he is the one i have done my "firsts" with . Its just so hard to let go of the fact that he was different from all the other guys i have went out with, there was something special about him and thats what made me fall in love with him. And now to think he broke up with me for no reason.He has really changed me and put me through things that i never thought i would do.
2007-03-06 11:52:10 · 9 answers · asked by dscrazy43 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
that happend to me
he dumped me for no reason i don't even know why he dumped me
i didn't get over him till a week after he broke up with me and the funny thing is he still flirtds with me and asked me to kiss him
but i didn't i mean if he wanted to kiss me he sould not have broke up with me!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-06 11:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by danielle d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting over a relationship like that is very hard. Trust me,I know cuz I've been there and I know how much it sucks...My ex-boyfriend was also the one I had my 'firsts' with and just like u, I also saw something special in him and I was head over heels in love..Letting go of him was one of the hardest things I ever had to do. I never thought I'd feel that way, that much hurt from someone because I had been in relationships before but not like this. I truly loved him and I really thought that we were going to have a future together. However,things didn't go that way. He broke my heart and I had to pick up the pieces. When u love someone that much, it's extremely hard to let go and to forget about them. I don't think it's really about forgetting. For me, .I learned that I had to forgive and by doing that, it helped me to move on. Movin on doesn't mean that u have to forget, if u get what I'm saying... Life is a learning experience. Someone once told me, that sometimes people come into our lives for a reason or a season..I don't know if this makes any sense to u but it did to me. It took me a lonnng time but eventually, I kinda realized that things may not have worked out between us,we were 2 completely different people.. .. Anyways, my point is that sometimes things happen for a reason. U may not see it now but trust me, u'll be ok..Your heart maybe broken now but in time, it will mend...Well hope this helps, take care
2007-03-06 13:25:05 · answer #2 · answered by Lil Miss V 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I suggest watching a film that really really makes you cry, to get it all out of your system. My film is Moulin Rouge, it gets me crying from start to finish, but then afterwards you just feel like you can move on. I know it sounds strange but just give it a go! I also think that a close friend, bottle of wine and a take away are essential too! But if your shy about this stuff, just do it on ur own, then the next nite get out and party to boost your confidence. With any luck, in a few months you mite c ur ex out, n you will look hot and he will realise what hes missed. Then you call the shots! Hope that helps xx
2007-03-06 22:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by tigger3003uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you have to keep busy and let it go and must go trough the pain and eventually it will go away . Its OK to think about it , but as the time will go on you see why the relationship broke up but you must abstain from getting into another relationship for awhile . Usually one month for each year .But everybody is different in the own healing process some is short and some takes longer . You are going trough the mourning period and that does take awhile . Then there is anger depression and all sort of other feelings . I wish you luck take your time and do not attempt to go back stay strong .
2007-03-06 12:03:51 · answer #4 · answered by Gentleman 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When me and my first broke up i felt the same as you and so do many other people. It a very hard thing to get through but, and i know this sounds really hard to do, but if you hold your head up high and get on withyour life you will soon feel better. Also as i have found out although he was your fisrt love you do find that when you meet someone else and fall in love with them it can feel 100 times better. Hope you feel better soon.
2007-03-06 23:11:07 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
end enjoying puzzling to get f you want him back. the final difficulty you opt to do is provide him mixed alerts. no longer something is ever assure to final perpetually and any courting can exchange or end for sturdy. i'm specific he realizes that he misses you and decide to verify if possibly you are able to exchange and this time issues may be diverse. All you're able to do is wait and want for the superb. Begging makes you seem to clingy genuine now. If he calls I advise you %. up and talk. Now in case you begged for him back after the movie date then he could no longer be particularly ordinary persuaded to return back. Wait some eeks and in basic terms say hi. in case you do no longer hear from him in a clever quantity of time then get waiting to circulate on.
2016-09-30 07:32:50 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know how old you r but there are allot of fish in the sea people move on so you need to move on.girl i had a boyfriend and i had almost have the same feelings as u but . i know Thar were more options in the world so pick the fish you want an that will be you true love 4 life.
2007-03-06 12:03:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big deal. You sound young, so you're wasting time on the memories of some schmuck who probably isn't even old enough to know how to wash properly.
Get over the idiot and find another bf.
2007-03-06 12:24:42 · answer #8 · answered by William 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
indulge in hobbies, keep yourself busy and when you start thinking of him turn you thoughts to something else, I went through this and joining the gym helped and now i am happy and single.
2007-03-06 20:59:30 · answer #9 · answered by SOJLO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋