...lately I've felt kind of weird around a girl that sits with me at lunch. It feels kind of like a crush, but I've always thought I was straight. I've had tons of crushes on guys before, in fact I was fairly boy-crazy in middle school. Does just this one thing mean I might be bi, or is it normal to go through this once or twice?
2007-03-06 11:50:14 · 5 answers · asked by Laura 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It's totally normally to occasionally crush out on the gender you're not normally attracted to, especially when you're a teenager. I'm a lesbian, but every now and then I get a crush on a boy. The difference is, if I ever get around to kissing that boy I realize I'm just not as into it as I would be if he were a girl.
Right now you shouldn't be worrying too much about your sexual orientation. Focus instead on making sure you only date people you genuinely like and are attracted to, boys or girls. And remember that there's absolutely nothing shameful about same sex attraction.
2007-03-06 11:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by JD 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
i think that its normal if you have feelings for the same sex,some
time you are more better off than being with the oposite sex, and
far less degrading. at least a woman knows more about another
woman than a so called man think he knows? most men just wa
nt to get you into bed, so that they can brag on what they did to yo
u with some of the other creeps? most men seem to think that se
x is the only reason that GOD put women here for? and they are
not able to think with anything other than whats between their legs
and not their heads? thats why there are so many dead beat dad
s, teenage mothers, and children trying to raise children. have mo
st of the people in America, and the rest of the Nations gone craz
y, Dont Care, or totaly have turned their backs on GOD and HIS
TEACHING about Sodom and Gomorah, and the Destruction tha
t came to them?
2007-03-06 12:54:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to go through a phase of sexual exploration/curiosity. Then again it's also normal for some people to think they're straight until they realize that they're actually bisexual. At this point with this little info, it's impossible to tell your sexuality. Just be open to the desires your feeling and accept them whoever they happen to be directed towards.
2007-03-06 14:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You could be going from straight 2 bi i went from bi to pretty much gay lol but that dosent meen anything it could be hero worship. That meens you look up to her you thinks shes pretty has a nice body nice personality she has that little something you dont have or maybe your just nervous aroung her and you just want to be her friend it depends but i dunno youll find yourself.
2007-03-06 13:15:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-03-06 12:07:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋