well me n my boyfriend been going out for 3 yrs hes done sum things that made me lose my trust for him but now were tryin to work things out but i just cant seem to let go of the past!!! And he wants to be able to go out with his friends but i never let him b/c of my jealousy and b/c i dnt trust i love him wit all my heart but wen i do let him go out he comes home the next day. i kno that hes not cheating on me but den i have my doubts what should i do?????? should i leave him??? plz help
2007-03-06 11:49:36 · 3 answers · asked by wendy u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can't just learn to trust him. Trust is something that is earned. It sounds like he has done major things in the past to cause you to lose trust in him. You say that you two are trying to work things out, but if he continues to go out and stay out all night, he is not doing his part. Because he has violated your trust, he needs to go above and beyond to earn it back and it doesn't sound like he is interested in doing that since it seems like it is more important to him to go out with his friends.
I know this sounds harsh, and you are probably hoping for another answer, but you just need to leave. Don't waste any more of your time with someone like this. Good Luck!
2007-03-06 12:17:27 · answer #1 · answered by Just Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what evea your heart says he might not be cheating but he also might be so you need to do what your heart says.you need to start letting go of the past if you guys talked about it and its over then that's that don't keep bringing it up because that cause unnecessary drama...
2007-03-06 12:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by LuckyLadyL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave em
2007-03-06 11:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by DanceForJoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋