Nerds... losers... geeks... rejects... how's life?

Question

So what is it like in your experience? Is it frusterating, does it feel like you are at the bottom of the social class? How does it feel to be ignored, looked down upon by your peers? Sometimes I feel lonely and I would like to know what it is like to be in other peoples shoes so i can better understand everyone... i guess just as much as you want to share!

Oh and by the way i am not IN ANY way trying to be snobby or mean at all, I just want to know what its like to be in your shoes.

excuse me ♫That'll be the Day♫, but i CLEARLY stated that the purpose of this question was not to make fun of or insult people with these "titles", but rather it was just a question so I could get a better understanding of other peoples lives. So maybe try READING the question before you get all sensitive and call me stuck up. All right? thanks ;)

Answer 1

I am a child of a King.

Answer 2

well when i first moved to where i live now. it was 5th grade. i was the new girl for like a loong time, so i guess everyone was interested. now that i look back, i was a total loser. like not in a mean way, but a "hahha look how i dressed" way. i mean i used to walk around with tags on my jeans, my fly opened, and round harry potter glasses. i used to trip and not even care. because thats how life was when we were young. you were never judged by your looks or how you dressed, but by your personality. (and humor). i had a lot of friends then and its a bit different now. because now, i have great style (hehehe), prada glasses, and have not made a fashion mistake so far. i guess being obssessed with how i look, i became self consious. and a bit more shy. so without my optimistic aura i once had, my friends started to drift away. it was a happier time in my life when i didn't care about how i looked and what i should say..etc. but i guess that happens to everyone, or almost everyone.

so my point of this story is, that who cares? be who you are and don't change for anyone else. you only have one life to live, try and live it the fullest:)

Answer 3

When i was in middle school, i was the first with my period, the first with boobs, and i had the huge plastic granny glasses. Life sucked. Then i got out of that school, into a bigger high school, got contacts, and blossomed. But when i was being picked on (boys learned the word "sl*t" and "dog" real quick!) life was horrible. I literally was more depressed than i can even imagine myself being now. It was horribly scarring, but at the same time, helped me realize that i shouldnt be mean to others. So, looking back, it was helpful, but awful. I dont know if that really helped though...I like who i am now, and im confident with myself, so i guess thats the important thing. :)

Answer 4

Some of us older ones could use a hand *up* here....more jobs would be nice. Or at least more friends, many of us have the double misfortune of being both dirt poor *and* lonely. Really, folks like me get ignored, dissed, and treated like outcasts way too often.

And generally speaking....your social services could be easier for folks to use and less halfassed about the way they get things done. It's one thing to be a loser, geek, or reject in your mid 20s, when you are just *starting* to get help, ok?

It's another to be stuck there still at 40 after hammering away at it for 15+ years and not getting anywhere because of agendas and policies that amount to *willfull* negligence and malpractice.

Really. I've been busting my tail to get a life since I was ten years old, since my parents divorced. -_- I'm tired. I'm tired of being alone, flat broke, and of having *no* control whatsoever of my life and *no* say whatsoever in my destiny. I've tried to be self-made and to be successful in *something*, anything, in spite of coming from a crap family and no money....and every time, *other people* have seen fit to screw me over. Or to make my mistakes *ten times worse* than what they were.

And I am tired of it. I am tired of things always going wrong and always going to crap for me no matter what I do, no matter how much I lower my standards.

Email me if you want to get the details the easy way....or check out some of my longer, rantier, more serious Best Answers at my profile if you want to get them the hard way. Have I made mistakes? Yes, but who doesn't?

Point is, seems like I'm the Dog that gets Beat. The Nail that gets the Hammer. And while not all "Nerds, losers, geeks, rejects" get this treatment out of life, I cannot possibly be the only one who does. I cannot possibly be the only one who is stuck living like this *in spite of* my best efforts.

But that is enough out of me....check out my Profile here on Answers, my Best Answers, email me if you want to. I know not all of us "misfits" have it like I do (my current therapist is one of us misfits and she has it pretty good), but those of us who have it bad have it *really bad*, trust me.

Thanks for your time. Sorry I was "such a ray of sunshine" here (ends sarcasm).

Answer 5

Wow someones stuck up! Well this nerdy loser geek reject is pissed off at all the people like you that are so stupid and seem to populate my highschool and try and spread their superfical insecurities and apperance of free thought.

Answer 6

i'm whether in touch with my childhood ultimate buddy. we've been friends once you think approximately that we've been 13 even even with the certainty that she lives 1000 miles from me now. yet yet another buddy of mine once you think approximately that we've been approximately 4 or 5 continues to be in touch with me too, and that i recently reconnected with a buddy from severe college, and we almost met up on a similar time as i replaced into on a pass to close to to her whether the timing wasn't precise this time. whether, we are able to seize up lower back as right now as we are able to. i've got have been given actually complete the two simple and severe colleges. I actual have 4 youngsters. ;)

Answer 7

Nerds/geeks rule! Without us, you wouldn't have any technical items (like your cell phone).

Answer 8

You are a B I T C H!!! My life's horrible and I like it that way!!!

Answer 9

you forgot dorks... i am a dork i know i have potential to be a nerd but i'm just stupid :( thanks now i feel like i'm at the bottom bottom.

Answer 10

I don't know, you tell me ;)