How Can I Be More Like a Virgo?

Question

BESIDES being born during that time, so don't be a smartass. =P

I'm a Sagittarius (moon in Sagittarius, ascendant Sagittarius, and three houses in it, including midheaven), and I've got practically all the "sadge" qualities. Except I'm not detail-oriented, I'm too impulsive, I'm too outspoken, and I'm a SLOB sometimes. How can I be like a meticulous, neat, perfectionist Virgo? Any tips? Would having lots of Virgo friends help? What else?

Oh, and I'm not asking this so I can get bitchy, useless remarks about how "astrology is bollocks" or whatever. Save that for questions that actually ask if astrology is valid. Thank youuu..

Answer 1

You are you, whether you like it or not. Realize THAT and love it. What's not in your natal chart will not be part of you, otherwise you would not be you...

Sagittarius (like all fire signs) always lack some neatness and yes, they are outspoken (extravert) because of the fire element. Every sign has some "difficult" traits whether you like it or not. Virgos sometimes are too nitpicking which may be extremely problematic for some too...

Don't blame your (negative) Sagittarius traits. Go for the positive ones.

Make peace with your own self, with whom you are and keep a positive mind-set. Focus on your positive traits and what you want to do with it. Every sign has positive and negative traits and you really can't have it all.

I wish everyone would have the spontaneity of Aries, the stubborness of Taurus, the versality of Gemini, the caring nature of Cancer, the creativity of Leo, the neatness of Virgo, the sociability of Libra, the in-depthness of Scorpio, the ... of Sagittarius ;-), the ambitions of Capricorn, the uniqueness of Aquarius and the compassion of Pisces but heck, we're on planet Earth here, aren't we?

Answer 2

Make friends with a Virgo. You will pick up little traits, if you pay attention. I am a Virgo with a few Saggie friends and its often the most interesting debates. Us Virgo's see the trees, every little detail, while a Saggie sees the whole forest. We rationalize (both signs are extremely intellingent) differently but each can show each other anther POV. (A Virgo who knows Saggies well or has Saggie in their natal chart is probably the best otherwise there may be stress in a friendship).

For the rest of living like a Virgo (yes we can get anal) make lists, set a routine, stand your ground and worry. These things just come naturally to us.

Sometimes I envy signs like Sagittarius, a freer spirit and always no worries. Find the balance you need. Have fun with who you are!

Answer 3

wow. that doesnt sound like a virgo at all. It could just be the people you know because i know many virgos and they are very docile. They are laid back not physically abusive. most virgos arent built so tough either they are tall normally lol and they are a bit picky, sarcastic but not verbally abusive. And EVERYONE gets mad sometimes, your friends just take it to another level and no offense but it sounds like they need help if they are physically abusive. And u being a libra you are right, u wont understand them lol. Libras judge quickly before anything. They dont analyze all the facts like a virgo does so they may not get along all that well too. No offense. It depends on birth charts and u've checked they are majority virgo....what about their mars sign? cuz if its virgo then they wont be abusive in any of the sense, they'd be the opposite! virgos are normally sweet hearts with OCD =].

Answer 4

Not being a smartass but the only way someone can be like a virgo is to practice the qualities of one even when you don't feel like it.. But basically it takes a level of self control that alcoholics and drug users have to get off the bad kick they are on....

there is no magic potion or way around it... But having lots of people around you with the qualities you want is a good start but the self control is the biggest thing.

But you could say you may need to be "born again"?