My sister in law gave birth 8 weeks ago to a beautiful baby girl. i have had a miscarriage & a abortion. i am only 18. it makes me happy n joyful 2look at her, but in the same respect sad cause i see what i could have had. My partner feels the same n when i look at him when he holds her i can see the sadness in his eyes which makes me cry inside. what should i do HELP ME? PLEASE
2007-03-06 11:21:00 · 6 answers · asked by tigertoc 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
first I will offer my sympathies to you and your partner, as far as the attraction, it seems normal that your would be attracted to your niece and the feelings of joy and pain seem quite normal. The only way that i would see this as a bad thing is if your sister was annoyed or if you overwhelming feelings. This to will pass, love you are young and I hope the doctors told you can have others. So enjoy your niece, let your body and emotions heal, and you will know when it is time to try again. I hope that I helped and don't stress and complete your grief process try not to rush to have another. And give time for your partner to heal too sometimes it hits them just as hard as the mother, and lastly keep the lines of communication open.
2007-03-06 11:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by Angie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't distance yourself. Enjoy your relationship with your niece. She is very special to you and it shows. As she grows up, she will feel your love and the two of you will have a special bond. I'm sad for you and I hope you can have another baby soon.
2007-03-06 11:27:10 · answer #2 · answered by Ceci 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 07:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should distance yourself completely but try not to think to much about it because it will make things harder. If you think you are rady you and your partner should sit down and talk about it and decided what you guys want.
2007-03-06 11:28:23 · answer #4 · answered by senciousbabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think you are ready then have a baby! DONT DISTANCE YOUR SELF!! she is your neice dont let her feel nagelcted by her aunt...talk to ur partner and see if you 2 are ready
2007-03-06 11:24:42 · answer #5 · answered by Baby♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't distance yourself, but don't get too clingy either... find a happy balance... :D
2007-03-06 20:02:33 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋