I made my best guy friend in the world mad at me and we hardly get to see each other. But when we do we have a great time yet every once in a while very have some nery heated discussions. I love the guy in my live and would die if him stopped talking to me. He is mad because he doesn't get to spend a whole lot of time with me. Another thing is that we were in a relationship earlier on and we both still have feelings for each other but live two states away from each other because of my parents divorce. I also want to show him a good time but don't know what to do to have fun and cheer him up. I also don't know how to show him that he will always be a huge and important part of my life no matter what!
2007-03-06 11:06:05 · 7 answers · asked by Amber S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i have a best that is a guy we wer efriends for six years and we fall out the other day but we joke about all of are problems we have because in the end we are true friend and a friendship is very important. but it is diffcult to have a freind with a boy but if you are really friend he will get over it call him and discuss the problem.
2007-03-06 11:14:25 · answer #1 · answered by tiffany m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then make time for the two of you to spend time together. You know where there`s a will, there`s a way. It sounds to me that being apart has made the heart grow fonder. Plan a time when you can be together and go on a picnic or a hike or just something where you both can be alone and spend precious time with each other. And let him know that you are feeling the same way he is. GOOD LUCK
2007-03-06 11:16:06 · answer #2 · answered by mammafran77 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he has to accept the fact that you two have different opinions and are different people and won't see eye to eye to everything. that probably has something to do with why you two aren't together anymore. if his opinions and high strung feelings are so important to him that he can't stand to be around you it's time to question how deep the friendship is to him to begin with. it isn't being reciprocated; you could spill your heart out to him and he'll still digress towards the difference of opinions.
I've had a lot of female friends, some i consider to be close some i miss because I'll never see them again and some i rarely had anything in common with. for the most part; i seriously, violently disagree with them on a lot of issues but i can get over it and move on with the friendship in spite of it because they're there for me in other ways. those few i don't, and haven't, it isn't because of the issues, but a lack of respect I've experienced or exhibited in other areas, some interpersonal and romantic, others, well perhaps I'll never know. sometimes you just aren't feeling someone and you don't know why you can't really articulate it. leave him alone; if the friendship is truly there to begin with he'll come around and let you know what's up if not then it isn't as deep as you'd like it to be ...
2007-03-06 11:25:20 · answer #3 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being mad with u will not change the fact that u guys live distance apart.what he should be doing is helping u figure out some ways in which u can see each other to spend some time together and stop being mad.
2007-03-06 11:13:12 · answer #4 · answered by macy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U should have never made him mad at u in the first place,,, i am sorry,,,,,,
i have no sympathy towards u because my best girl friend made me angry at her n i still havent spoken to her,,,,,,,
n im going to stick by it,, even though i wanna talk to her sometimes...
2007-03-06 11:15:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be open honest and direct with him. It depends on why he is angry with you. Communication is the KEY WORD here
2007-03-06 11:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by chattylady47150 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just talk it out,I am sure yall will be fine.
2007-03-06 11:11:39 · answer #7 · answered by sexygal8321 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋