why is life so easy for some people and so hard for others? its like Charles Dickens once said : It was the best of times and it was the worst of times.." everyone knows some people r born with simple easy lives while others have to suffer and work so hard to survive. Also u ever notice that most bad people have easy good fates while a lot of good people are born into poverty, slavery , or suffering?
2007-03-06 10:40:50 · 6 answers · asked by dreamz 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Some may say it's Karma, I just believe is back personal judgment in life circumstances.
For example, I'm a very unlucky person, you name it and it happened to me... but I think most of it is my lack of good judgment. Maybe my parents didn't brought me up to live in a competitive world, so my ideas freeze when I face challenge so I tend to choose the first logical option, and is usually wrong. Also, it appears that I do not learn with my mistakes. What the hell is wrong with me?
I don't expect to win the lottery or to get some money from inheritance. I expect to work hard throughout life, usually twice as much as other people to have at least half of what most people have. I may sound a bit negative, but I believe in life and everything for me is experience. I've been through so much, but don't regret any choices of my life. Maybe that's why I don't learn from mistakes, because my mistakes are part of my learning.
2007-03-06 10:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by Mikhael 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's the old saying - you pay the piper, you take your chances? I guess everyone takes a chance at birth - if you're born into a movie star's family or a pro athlete's family, that's fine, but if you're born into a family that needs to work 3 or 4 jobs to scrape by, well that's fine too. One thing's for sure - the kid born into the 3-4 job family will have a much tougher life in the beginning, but by the time the kid's at least 15, he/she will be able to handle anything life throws at them - sex, gangs, other people (despite what the government says that 15 year olds can't handle anything), while the kid whose parents are wealthy may have tons of cash and bling, but no street smarts or life survival skills. After all, money and bling can't prevent you from getting your a** shot up - just ask any high-ranking gang member or rap star.
2007-03-06 10:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by jberton1060 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of the hardest things Ive had to learn is that life is not fair, some are born in loving countries, some in impersonal ones, some people are born in wonderful loving families, some are born in abusive homes, some people are born with AIDS, some are very healthy, some are born in families that can provide them iwth food, some are born in extreme poverty. We are all given a deck of cards and we have to do the best we can with what we have been given, for some reason it is just the way it is.
Some times in my life Ive felt so disappointed with lack of options, hearthaches and physical limitations, but what I am learning is to be contempt with what I have no matter how hard it seems.
2007-03-06 10:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by Alejandra 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apples and oranges. Different sexes, different types of problems and pressures. Life can be hard (or easy) for anyone. Probably most people would describe their lives as difficult. What is difficult for one, however, may be a piece of cake for another. I think it has more to do with personality and coping skills than with gender.
2016-03-28 21:59:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all should have been born and brought up by Brady Bunch Parent Robots.
....Talk about world peace!!!!!
2007-03-06 10:45:45 · answer #5 · answered by IMHO (In My Humble Opinion) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U say life is hard, but thats compared to what?
2007-03-06 20:22:07 · answer #6 · answered by bambooo21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋