Today will be the 18th day that I have not communicated with my friend in an way. On sunday morning, she e-mailed me saying "hey, havent talked to you for a long time, hope everything is well" She was being really mean to me two weeks ago so I got sick of it. She is sometimes the best anyone can be around, then she turns into this mean person who you start to doubt if they really care. on my bday, she emailed me saying happy bday, which wast two days after she was being mean, and i told her "u2" because we have the same bday. That's the last thing I wrote to her. Now, I just got that e-mail and I don't know what to write to her. She is clueless and doesnt think she did anything wrong. I love this girl and I told her a while ago but she doesnt take it seriously. It's starting to annoy me and hurt me at the same time. Should I e-mail her and what should I say?
2007-03-06 10:40:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
email her and say that you noticed that she has been acting different and ask her if she is mad at you. If she is then ask her why and hopefully you guys will be able to work it out. If she says shes not mad at you then ask her why she's been so mean to you. Hopefully you guys can work it out. good luck <33
2007-03-06 10:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Emily♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this might seem uncomfortable but you do need to get in contact with her. If you don't feel comfortable telling her about the way she's been treating you at first, don't. Start off with a casual e-mail and once you start feeling comfortable enough that you can confide in her again, just tell her about what you have been going through. If she is sorry about making you mad than forgive her, and eventually it sounds like you two will be fine, and if it gets to a point where you feel like you can tell her you love her and make her believe it, just tell her. She probably loves you too.
2007-03-06 18:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by qwerty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
e-mail her and ask her why she acts like that, just tell her exactly how you feel,see what she says and go from there.
good luck!
2007-03-06 18:51:12 · answer #3 · answered by dannys girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this sounds lame but you really just need to telll her exactly how you feel.
best of luck.
2007-03-06 18:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋