why dose my boyfriend think its ok to tell me he is going to get sexual favors from somewhere else?

Question

Im pregnant and he always wants it, I don't feel like it, so he says hes going to get it somewhere else!! why dose he think its ok to do that?

Answer 1

Why would you let him? If he would even say something like that knowing you're carrying his child than he really needs to be punched in the face. That's so disrespectful. My boyfriend and I stopped having sex 4 months into my pregnancy, he's taken the next 4 like a champ. He's actually tried even harder to be a better boyfriend knowing that he wouldn't want his little girl to be in a relationship with a grimy guy. I wouldn't be surprised if this jerk hasn't already gotten favors on the side. I'd be very weary of this guy he sounds like a flake.

Answer 2

I don't know all the circumstances so I cannot believe that you would do what you are supposed to which is make him understand that to mend his ways NOW and show you some respect and consideration for your present circumstance or else throw him out . He is probably very young and immature . His hormones and yours right now are not compatible . A mature man would know about that already . To tell you to dump him is not the answer . You need a shoulder to lean on . I think you used wrong judgment to get pregnant in the first place . Too late for a reprimand and I don't mean it that way either .
Please do learn from this experience and no more unprotected sex no matter what after this child is born . Your whole life changes .
Just remember it is not OK for him to threaten you with what he is doing . You not only will have a kid but also a STD . Believe me, that is worse than a baby .

Answer 3

Well first off congrats you are bout to have a child,
OK now well the only reason he is probably saying this is because he wants you to give in and say yea. But if he does goes out and do these things then you know he wasn't the one for you. You should talk to him and tell you how you feel and that you don't want him to go out and do that because you want him there for you and you child.

Answer 4

No, i'm happy with somebody expressing any opinion, whether it differs from mine. yet do not tell me i won't manage to do something while it particularly is glaring some human beings are doing the very comparable ingredient devoid of outcomes. Oh specific...unusual how I particularly have unexpectedly run out of stars...hmmm

Answer 5

He is being a bully and trying to get you to give him the sex he craves. Stick up for yourself and tell him to do as he wants, but if he does that to never come back or talk to you. Don't argue and say no more than that. If he does it, then you are better off without him.
Talk to your friends and parents about it. There's no sense in carrying that BS alone.

Answer 6

Because all you are to him is a human sex toy.Thats it!Nothing more and nothing less.He doesnt respect you, if he did he would have MARRIED you BEFORE getting you pregnant.He is just trying to control you by making you afraid you can easily be replaced.Maybe you can be replaced easily or you believe you can.He realizes if your afraid enough of losing him you will do anything,...anything to keep him.Next time he tells you that, tell him go ahead, you will find a good daddy for your baby whoe loves AND respects you and they can raise it together while he pays child support.

Answer 7

he does it to anger you as well as perhaps forewarning you of his brainlessness. however if that's his baby he shouldn't be doing that and maybe i'm just old fashioned but all these kids being born out of wedlock isn't a healthy thing for the single parent nor for the children having to grow up in such conditions due to young people coupling like rabbits without thinking of the consequences, and if one wishes to have a baby they should marry first. but anyway. to your question.. get rid of that guy's dumb *** and find someone that will love you.. a relationship is Not just about sex, nor is sex the number 1 priority in a loving relationship. love can be expressed without sex.

Answer 8

I have no idea why he would think that- but you should make it clear that it is not OK by dumping his behind and never taking him back... what kind of man is that? Is that the kind of man you want "looking after you and your kids"? Is that the kind of man you want as a father to your baby?

I would never put up with that.

Answer 9

Because he's an insecure idiot. A pregnant woman doesn't need that kind of stress. If he needs it that bad he can use his hand for a few months. Put your foot down on that chump of a man.

Answer 10

either he's just joking, or he's a scumbag. Tell him that if he goes somewhere else to get it, he better not come back, because you won't be giving it to him anymore and all his crap will be at Goodwill!