i have this friend that is idk i guess u cud say jealous..whenever i hang out wit my other friends, she gets mad and seys she doesnt like em...she even has friends that she cant stand but brings em around neway and its crap, i never sey nething bout her friends, but she talks bout mine constantly and i tell her not to..what else should i do?
2007-03-06 10:27:56 · 13 answers · asked by ree<3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well shes my brother's gf haha and my nephews mother..she lives at my house and we all hang out with like a bunch of ppl every weekend...but sometimes i go out with my other friends
2007-03-06 10:41:10 · update #1
What else should you do? How about realizing that she is not your friend either. Friendship sounds like a blur to her. If she talks behind other girl's backs, believe me when I say she is talking about you too. I hope you haven't trusted her with your secrets.
Find a better friend(s) and remember not to tell important or personal things to girlfriends. Gossip is their favorite sport. Please remember that. I wish I had that to do all over when I was your age! Never trust your girlfriends with your secrets.
2007-03-06 10:34:33 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell this friend of yours that is jealous whenever you hang out with your other friends that you will spend time with her one day a week to do the things that you both like to do together.
2007-03-06 10:48:19 · answer #2 · answered by Heidi T 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
don't worry about controlling what she thinks...or keeping her from being mad. These things are out of your control. Treat her as a friend, but don't limit yourself with other friends. This is something she's going to have to learn - you're a friend to her by not enabling her to control other people, but still being kind.
2007-03-06 10:33:34 · answer #3 · answered by aguardiente_blkr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this sounds exactly how one of my friends were...but you need to tell her exactly how you feel and if she gets mad at you and doesnt want to be your friend any more because of it then you know she wasnt a true friend with to begin with...real friends dont care who you hang out with
2007-03-06 10:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by elisabeth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say that sometime you need your space. If she is a real friend, she will give you your space. Maybe you friends did something to her. Ask your other friends what they think of her.
2007-03-06 10:31:47 · answer #5 · answered by nobody 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just try to tell her that if she doesnt like your friends, shes not your friend
2007-03-06 10:33:42 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Steph♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u need to bring all your friends together.maybe your friend is feeling alienated. and she brings her 'so call 'friends around to make u jealous.
2007-03-06 10:46:01 · answer #7 · answered by macy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get her a guy he should keep her busy enough to stop worrying about u and ur other friends
2007-03-06 10:30:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her straight that she has to stop talking about our friends because you dont say bad things about her friends.
2007-03-06 10:33:35 · answer #9 · answered by barrett m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to be straight up with her, and tell her that she is being rediculous and that yall are allowed to have other friends.
2007-03-06 10:30:28 · answer #10 · answered by karissa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋