Im at uni and I dont live in halls, so I have to depend on my old mates. They have turned really b*tchy and weve started growing appart. Everything I do is opposite and we are just not getting along. I feel as if I have to be into the same things, in which Im not!
This is really stressing me out beucase I dont really know who I am anymore, and Im scared people wont like the real me. Which is stupid.
I have a wonderful boyfriend and Im not afraid of making mates! In fact I would love to meet people with the same interests as me.
My old mates arnt into the same things. I would say that me and my boyfriend are bestest mates becuase we share the same interests. Thing is this is putting pressure on our relationship ish!
I would love to expand a little too!
How do I be myself? I want people to like me for who I am from now on.
2007-03-06 09:52:29 · 4 answers · asked by lozziebach 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Only you can really answer this question as I do not know anything about the "real" you. The truth of the matter is, if the people you hang around now don't accept every thing about you it is ok... they do not have to. If you have something in common and want to maintain their friendships, then focus on your differences. As for the things you like to do that do not... well, go out and find another group of people who like that as well. There is no limit on how many friends you can have...
2007-03-06 10:55:30 · answer #1 · answered by Whatev' Yo' 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the people in your classes right after class. Find a study group and meet once or twice a week at the library. Attend uni sporting events. Be part of the whole experience and sooner or later you'll find a group that likes you for who you are, no questions asked.
2007-03-06 18:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself and dont hide anything inside and only be with those that like the open you.be around only open-minded people that are non-prejudise and selfless
2007-03-06 17:58:07 · answer #3 · answered by woodsonhannon53 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want people to like you for who you are, be yourself. To be yourself you must know who you are. If you don't like who you are, change what you're doing.
2007-03-06 18:00:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋