my friend keeps on sending me mean messages on my mail but at school she is all nice to me what shuld i do ? shuld i tell her somthing!
2007-03-06 09:32:10 · 9 answers · asked by Deleted! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i still want to be her friend and at the same time i don't! =(
2007-03-06 09:32:42 · update #1
Just tell her that you don't appreciate her being so two faced and that if she wants to be your friend at school, she has to treat you with respect outside of school as well. Ask her why she's doing it and let her know that if it doesn't stop immediately, you will no longer be her friend. After all, why would you want to be friends with someone who is mean to you? Good luck :)
2007-03-06 09:39:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely know how u feel. I had the same thing happen to me. U show her u r not interested in her childish games and that u don't care if u guys are friends or not. If she asks whats going on just tell her that she changed and u dont want to be with the new her and that if she stays like that ur friendship will end. She might say "fine! i have better friends" but she will come back to u. My friend sure did but i am always causion. I dont want her to hurt me again. I am not close with her anymore I am just friends with her not "best friends"
2007-03-06 17:40:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you should confront her at school. Don't send mean emails back, because they will just make things worse. If you want to patch things up, I would take her aside (during lunch maybe?) and ask her if she still wants to be your friend. Ask why she's sending mean emails. Personally, if she is just turning you away, she may not be worth your time, and you should concentrate on other friendships. But I understand friendship problems (I just got out of one.) People told me that my friend was not worth the trouble and to stop being her friend, but I still really wanted her to be my friend. So I just talked to her about it, and she was worth the trouble, because we have too much fun hanging out and at school. Maybe you can invite her over to your house? Well, good luck. I hope you can patch things up!
2007-03-06 17:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by Rose♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i was in this situation i would definitely say something .... but i wouldn't say it in a mean or rude way just say have u been sending me mean messages ??? cause u don't want to start trouble ... their could be a mix up and those messages could have been for someone else ... u never no until u ask
2007-03-06 17:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by Manda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her out. When you see her in school and she stars being all nice with you tell her that you don't associate with backstabbing fake a** people and if she wants to talk sh** and act all big via the internet then be nice to your face simply because she is afraid of you, she needs to grow up and get a da** life and get out of yours. Don't put up with fake friends you are missing out on the real good friends you could have.
2007-03-06 17:38:44 · answer #5 · answered by cheesussinclair 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES! you should ask her what her problem is. Most likely you should talk to her in person cuz then you will be able to tell if they were lying or not. Tell her off so she will think about what she is doing.
2007-03-06 17:40:29 · answer #6 · answered by savanna o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should ask her to stop sending you mean messages and if she don't stop e-mailing her ok good luck
2007-03-06 17:37:18 · answer #7 · answered by ♦♪♫ஐ♥♥ஐ♫♪♦ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell that little ***** to stop it or else!!!!!!!!!!!! but not in my mean way lol just confront her and tell to stop because you dont like it if she doesnt stop then i guess she didnt mean that much to you to begin with
2007-03-06 17:35:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yea, She need to know that you is not putting up with her bull-S***anymore and stop being FAKE...
2007-03-06 17:43:33 · answer #9 · answered by LeeLee34Lickabooty-Minniemouse34 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋