im 14.....and i dont wanna be what i am right now. i always pull down my shirt to show my breasts...or wear tight jeans tht make my *** look big and wear too-short mini skirts. and i always want and try anything to get the attention from guys. i also wear too much makeup and i dont kno why i do all of this....all of my friends do it so its not like its just me. and i always give girls dirty looks and act like a bittch to them. idk if im doing it cuz of my friends??? what should i do!?! i sometimes hate the attention of guys bcuz they smack my *** and do all of tht nasty stuff.....plz help me
2007-03-06 09:29:44 · 19 answers · asked by zoeyyy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to decide now what you want to be. There are two options. You can be a decent young lady or you can be a stupid whore. I guess you like the attention and that you are hanging with the wrong girls. You are very young and you can change now. You can get some cool clothes that are not slutty and you can find some nice friends. If you want boys to respect you, you have to earn it. If you want to be known as trashy, then just keep doing what you are doing now.
2007-03-06 09:35:34 · answer #1 · answered by Barbara 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are halfway to curing the problem as you know you have one. Well done.
You are obviously intelligent and basically a good girl so take yourself in hand and change.
Don`t go for major changes as this will cause too many comments. Start maybe with the make up, tone it down. The next time you get to buy clothes try on---look at the length and think about how YOU want to look never mind your friends. As for you giving dirty looks and being nasty think before you speak. try smiling instead of snarling. You will get more friends that way.
The next time a guy does something you don`t like tell him calmly to keep his hands to himself. You own your body.
Changing is hard, but wanting to change is the first step a new you.
Good luck, I`d like to bet in a few months you`ll be just what you want to be.
2007-03-06 17:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ******* slut im sorry but thats the truth no one likes a bitchy classmate if i were the one you were being a ***** to id want to kick your ******* ***! im so sorry i sound mean but you should really stop cuz all those boys want from you is your butt and boobs they dont really care for the real you the way you dress why would they nobody wnats to have a girlfriend like that you need to have self respect and be different than your friends and maybe you will have a good boyfriend that cares for you and not for the sex so please just cover up more and dont be a ***** be nice cuz your going to change as you get older anyways! k good luck
WHAT!! YOUR 14 IN HIGHSCHOOL WHAT THE FLIP well dont worry ok your going to change and grow out of it start by wearing jeans tight jeans are ok then the shirt you can show cleavage but not a lot and your a freshman you still got 3 years to go take care of yourself
btw im 15 freshman
2007-03-06 17:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh dear oh dear! wear what you want. what other people say is what theyre going to say or think. if you allow their words or actions to control you...then you might as well have no thoughts of your own. just theirs....controlling your thoughts of yourself.
if one person says you have a slutty look and ten people tell you that you look nice....most likely you will believe what the 'one' person told you. now how is that right? a mini skirt can make ur legs feel cool on a hot day. breasts are beautiful and natural...other peoples thots make you feel bad about them...dont allow it. do you wear too much makeup? or do you put on just enough to please your reflection? give dirty looks...you get dirty looks back. smile and your will receive smiles. hit one guy that smacks you and show your intolerance! you dont need help...you need to love urself more. peace
2007-03-06 17:41:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chica chill out. It's a phase all girls go through. At my school one of the girls that was not in the "popular crowd" turned hot and got all the male attention. All the other girls were mean to her then because they were jealous.
2007-03-06 17:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by Joe1664 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you play the part, you will get similar results. If you don't like what boys are doing to do, then dress more conservatively and don't act so dirty. If you do, you are asking for unwanted attention, unless that is what you desire.
2007-03-06 17:33:52 · answer #6 · answered by LW 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You lack confidance and you don't believe that you are beautiful so you get the attention by doing these things.
Stop doing it, you'll stop all the bad attention and get some of the good attention you've been scaring off.
2007-03-06 17:34:30 · answer #7 · answered by makawao_kane 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your one stupid little girl if you dont like the *** smacking then dont be wearing some mini skirts.and im sure if you were to try to b a bittcch with me then id knock your *** out and its not because of your friends you aint gotta b a follower you just choose to be one
2007-03-06 17:33:28 · answer #8 · answered by cathy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just stop it. It makes guys feel like they can do these things to girls and disrespect them.
2007-03-06 17:33:12 · answer #9 · answered by sun5h1ne715 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to have a bit more modesty... you know that kind of behavior can get you raped or worse... you are too young to be doing that kind of stuff... way too young... straighten up young woman and get your stuff together... act mature and not so loose...
2007-03-06 17:33:49 · answer #10 · answered by metalli_catz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋