How do i know if my baby is growing inside of me?

Question

I am preganant right now again but i had miscarriage last year in april.. And There a lot of doctors do not know why we have miscarriage.. I was IN ER when i found out my baby die.With ultrasound. but they secret say that the fetus was small was like two months. when i was 16 weeks and that when i had my miscarriage.
So now i am preganany again and i am scary it would happen again and that some how i am scary my baby is not growing and I do not know how many weeks i am have not had my ultrasound yet.. Need to make appointment but people where i go make the appointment for me... I think the far i donot get my ultrasound the better so i know that i donot have to worry i am still in my 1st Trimester.. because the first three month hard to go though i wanted to be in my 2st Trimester and not worry i would have miscarriage...
This maybe stupid question.. But i just wondering and wanted to know more information
thanks

I am kind of scary it would happen again.. and this week i had the stomach flu and have fever.

I just wanted this preganant to be fine.. and nothing wrong

and for people who answer this question thanks... but i can be worry.. about this a lot more

Answer 1

I'm so sorry for your loss!! I had 2 miscarriages and a still birth before I had my 2 healthy children!!

Ok.. first of all, ultrasounds don't cause miscarriage!!!! Don't even worry about that. It is one of the safest tests they can do. All that is involved with ultrasound is sound waves that create a picture.

More then likely, with your first pregnancy, the baby died before you knew it. That's why it was smaller then it should have been. The first three months for any woman are scary months. You never know what will happen in pregnancy. It's natural after what you have been through that you would worry more about this one then the last one. It's natural to worry that the baby isn't growing. If you are really worried, call your doctor and see if they can do an ultrasound just so you are sure everything is fine. Or have someone call for you. Usually, after a miscarriage, you will have a normal pregnancy. Usually there is no known reason for the first miscarriage. Just know that almost every woman in her life will have at least one miscarriage. Sometimes they don't know they had one, just a late, heavy period. Sometimes it's like what happened to you and me. You will probably never know what happened with your first baby, but what matters now is this baby. Take care of yourself, do everything your doctors tell you and try to relax. Good luck and again, I'm so sorry for your loss!!

Answer 2

I went through the same thing with my second pregnancy. I lost my first child at 22 1/2 weeks and when I got pregnant again I was a nervous wreck, becuase my 1st pregnancy was going fine until 18 weeks and then they hit me with me the news that I was going to lose my little girl.

Try to remain calm and just reassure yourself that this little is going to be fine! Its not easy to do and it really helps to have a good dr. I had the absolute best ever, she was with me through my first and so she knew all my worries with my son and was there every step of the way. She even held me while I cried when I got my pregnancy test results because I was so scared. Hopefully you have family and friends to help you through this.

You honestly just have to have faith!

Answer 3

ok in case your faking it get a fairy and and ask for some magic jelly beans eat those and in a flash no more suitable toddler! :D and if that is for genuine :o flow to church and pray and uhh tell your sins and **** perhaps see a clergyman then the toddler will like die and yeah. Or it this may be like an particularly undesirable horror transferring comming genuine! OH NO preserve the youngsters!!! :o

Answer 4

I think it mait be the ultrasound that mait cause the miscarriage
my parents told me that so maybe you should ask the doctor if that mait be the case. I hope you dont get a miscarriage again