I met a nice guy at a straight dance for people over 30 yrs olds. We exchanged phone numbers and he's asked me out for a date. Feeling pangs of guilt, I called him to explain that I'm transgendered. Knock me over w/a feather - he sounded a little funny - not surprisingly, I guess - but said that he still wanted to go out. Should I do it or am I headed for a disaster?
2007-03-06 09:10:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
meet him at someplace public. When your trans you have to be more careful. Good for you for being honest too!!!! You did the right thing, but you have to protect yourself too.
2007-03-06 09:16:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure! Give him a chance! He might be looking for a chance to try something different; expand his horizons. But if you get down, don't ask him to be a bottom! He will most likely want to retain the dominant male role! But it could work out. Good luck!
2007-03-06 09:31:42 · answer #2 · answered by Marcus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start out slowly....meet the first time and just be yourself. Time will tell whether you can trust him or if he's being sincere.
Sometimes you just have to take the risk in order to find happiness. Big Bear Hugs!
2007-03-06 09:14:18 · answer #3 · answered by behrmark 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah - go on a dance and just see how it goes - just don't expect to much, so you'll hopefully get a nice surprise if things work uout. All the best.
2007-03-06 09:16:53 · answer #4 · answered by AJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you meet somewhere public, etc. Congrats on meeting a guy that didn't run upon hearing that you're trans.
2007-03-06 14:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that he's into you anyway. To be safe, you should meet him in a public place and don't go anywhere private with him until you know he's safe.
2007-03-06 09:46:36 · answer #6 · answered by devouring_wind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say trust until given a reason not to trust!
2007-03-06 09:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One step at a time.
2007-03-06 09:15:28 · answer #8 · answered by bobweb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋