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2007-03-06 08:27:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
You should only do it when it feels right. Cause if you don;t you will feel cheap and used in the end.
Treat your body like a fine piece of imported china. High in value, easy to break, and something everybody might want, but something you should not let them touch.
2007-03-06 08:37:10 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
DEREK is right
i got date raped when i was 13 and in the end i felt cheap and used.
JUST A warning - it hurts the first couple times - A LOT!! i cried.
do what you feel is right, hun, but remember --
YOU AND ONLY YOU are responsible for your actions, that includes consequences such as pregnancy and stds.
im a teen too (15, got a great boy who i trust) and am sexually active. if this is a serious question, and u want a real answer, email me @ natasha-rules-the-world@hotmai l.com
im not telling you that u shouldnt have sex because thats entirely up to u, but just be aware of what could happen.
i definitely suggest masturbating first to get accustomed to having things in there.
2007-03-06 17:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by looking for love this time 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait!!!!!! Having sex is for when your more mature and able to handle the severity of it. STD's, Aides, child birth should always be the first things that pop in your head when wanting to sleep with anyone you don't know or do know but haven't been tested. Having sex comes from a natural instinct, there is no wrong way or right way to have it, it just happens when it is right and you are comfortable doing it. Don't lose it as a race or popularity contest as i had know many girls in High School to do. Most regret their decision because it put them as the Slut status. You don't want to be remembered that way after graduation so please wait until it is right.
2007-03-06 16:42:40 · answer #3 · answered by Emily M 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest avoid having sex just to have sex. Especially for the 1st time. We all get the urges and are curious about the whole sex thing. A lot of physical and emotional issues can come into play, things you never considered!
Best to explore your body yourself and satisfy those urges until you are REALLY ready. I used to use a thin candle or hairbrush handle up in me to masturbate with and enjoy the feelings. safe and effective!
2007-03-06 19:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't choose to have sex just because all your friends are doing it. If you don't know what to do, then you are not ready for sex...let alone getting pregnant or becoming a mother, or father. Save this precious moment for the one, that special one you want to have a memory with for the rest of your life. You don't need to practice just to get good at it. God designed sex as a beautiful thing between married couples....to procreate and make a family. If you are not ready for that, then wait...til you get married to a person who will respect you enought to wait for you. That's real love!
2007-03-06 21:52:00 · answer #5 · answered by rejoiceinthelord 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely wait. I felt pressure from a boyfriend I had when I was 16 to have sex, but I didn't do it. I was eighteen when I first had sex, and today he is my husband still after many many years.
Anyway, the first time you have sex it is so painful, uncomfortable, and a horrible experience. You should experience it with someone you trust enough to not hurt you both physically and emotionally.
2007-03-06 17:06:44 · answer #6 · answered by Lupita 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey are you like 13-15? We all have urges honey! Especially at that age when you know you shouldn't! I think you should wait 'till you find the right guy, i'm not saying you should go on to marry him, but you don't want to appear as if you were a slut-but i know your not!!! Why don't you get a hairbrush handle and quickly glide it in and out of your lady hole? It's good! :D or you could get an electric toothbrush on your area ;) But dw babe we all know the feeling!
2007-03-06 16:43:03 · answer #7 · answered by Emma 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex until you're married. There are a lot of things that you might WANT to do, but that doesn't necessarily mean that you should do them. Think about the consequences of your actions before you act on them. Then you'll think twice about having sex, doing drugs...etc. I always look to the Bible when there's doubt in my mind. You should try it. Hope this helps :)
2007-03-06 17:11:05 · answer #8 · answered by Colie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should wait a while. I mean do you understand the consequences? You could get pregnant. Just think about how your life would change. If you are in arelatiuonship where the guy wants to do it......he is a total jerk get out of it. But if not remember how your life would change if you got pregnant.
If you will die without having sex.....talk to your sister, friend, doctor or mom.
2007-03-06 16:39:31 · answer #9 · answered by morgankap 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
please dont rush into it if ur just doing it coz u wanna see what its like, i did and have regretted it ever since!!! wait until ur in a relationship with someone you really love, it makes it so much more special and you will enjoy it so much more. the first time wont happen again so make the most of it!!!! (sex is so overrated anyway!!!) if you are with someone you love and ur sure you want to do it, just relax, take your time, and dont be afraid to say if you want to stop. if ur with someone you love then ur other half will understand. but please dont do it just for the sake of it!!!!
2007-03-06 16:58:51 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋