I have been dating this guy for about 7 months now. My mother does not like him because he is 20 years older that I am. The truth is though, that I am finding myself unattracted to him. I was never really physically attracted, but enjoyed his company and he treats me so well. But, I have been finding myself more and more wanting to be with a woman. I have dated women before, but never went all the way, as I was too shy to make the move. I want that relationship again though and really miss my former girlfriends. I really dont know where I would find a good girl for me either. Any advice?
2007-03-06 08:27:12 · 7 answers · asked by Morrigan 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are not attracted to him, you don't love him -- Yes, leave the poor guy alone.
2007-03-06 08:32:11 · answer #1 · answered by Kedar 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to cut him loose so he can find someone who is attracted to him. Because you enjoy his company, continue being his friend. Since you've had relationships with women before, then you know already where to find a good girl. It sometimes take patience and some time but eventually the right gal will sweep you off your feet.
2007-03-06 08:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by behrmark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if u don't love him any more, then yes, leave him. Its not like he's never gonna talk to u again. U can always be friends. And simply explain to him that u now realized that u like girls. That is totally ok.
2007-03-06 08:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by Joka B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave him if your not happy- life it too short to settle for less then what you want. I dont think that you are really gay- I think more bi- so maybe you should just date for a while- dont settle down with anybody right now.
2007-03-06 09:47:31 · answer #4 · answered by ItalianPrincess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Stop leading the poor bastard on like that. It's not fair to either of you.
2007-03-06 08:52:00 · answer #5 · answered by castle h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, then, you've answered your own question, I think. Leave him. As for where to find a good girl, I can't help you as I am gay.
2007-03-06 08:31:22 · answer #6 · answered by jasgallo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-03-06 08:31:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋