O.k, i have a friend that is 8 months pregnant. Her husband told her that he need some space to be free. They are both 21. So she moved back home with her mom. She had to switch drs, change her WIC to another state, and pack all her things up only for him to call her a week later to tell her he wants her to come home. She stayed gone for a month. The whole time she was gone, he was cheating with a girl that lives 50 miles from base. She comes back soon, but how can i look her in the face knowing what he did? Please help!
2007-03-06 07:55:13 · 11 answers · asked by $Bl@Ck BuTtAfLy$ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
what a bastard!!!
2007-03-06 08:10:52 · answer #1 · answered by Priscilla R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell her she needs to talk to her husband, something's up and at such a young age she doesn't need his BS, especially if he's cheating. That's so unfair to her and to the baby. I wouldn't let her go back to him, I'd probably tell her what i know and hope that she has the ability to confront him. Such a bad time for this kinda thing to be happening, baby on the way and all. She's in my thoughts and I wish her well!
("Be free" my a**, he shouldn't have gotten married then!)
2007-03-06 16:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by JD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a good friend isn't always easy. You need to tell her. This is her life we are talking about and if he cheated now he will cheat again and it may take her years to find out. Meanwhile the child becomes attached and her self esteem goes waaaay down making it harder to leave the jerk when she will find out again. Plus if she ever finds out you knew all along you will no longer be friends. Tell her - she deserves to know what she is moving back to.
2007-03-06 15:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by Tricia B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
since there is a baby involved you need to tell her because if
he got a std then that would be real fkuced up for her to deal with and a new baby also he could do it agin and mess things up for
the child in just a few short years
so go tell her or give her a letter but let HER KNOW
you would want to know if it was you
2007-03-06 16:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by ez-goin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would tell.
Only because if it were me, I'd want to know. It's hard, and some will say it's none of your business...but I can't stand a cheater.
He certainly doesn't deserve to have her back.
2007-03-06 15:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by Misty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her before the baby is born, It is better for both her and baby now rather than later.
2007-03-06 16:00:04 · answer #6 · answered by sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her after the baby, why give her more stress now. She does deserve to know, however.
2007-03-06 15:59:18 · answer #7 · answered by Very Lost 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth in time.
If not do it now you will very sorry after some time wen he will live her.
2007-03-06 16:01:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, she has a right to know so she can make a better decision for her and the baby.
2007-03-06 16:00:19 · answer #9 · answered by Alexis221 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,i know it is hard to tell her but in this time which she need support(emotional,...) from him,he left her alone& he is unresponsiblle&untrusted person & being Parents need huge reponsibllity.
2007-03-06 16:27:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be as genlte as you can because she needs to know so you can't not tell her good luck ;)
2007-03-06 16:00:10 · answer #11 · answered by Dennis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋