i am 18 yaers old and i have a boyfriend that i have been with 3 years now and i am 1 mouth pregnant and he told me to move in with him i do really love him what should i do move in or dont move in
2007-03-06 07:42:19 · 13 answers · asked by Suzanna G 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
are you keeping the baby? if so then yeh why not, if your havin a baby together you have got to learn to live with each other, help each other out round the house, and be grown up about things, if you argue alot, then your not ready for parenthood, so move in and give it a try, xx BEST OF LUCK x hope this helps
2007-03-06 07:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a good time to move in with each other... I mean you've already been dating for 3 years, you pretty much know each other fairly well.
But, if you have doubts about moving in, then you can still think about it... talk to your parents, and talk to your boyfriend about it. Make sure that you are ready for the change... and maybe even if you do move in with him and it doesn't work out, so that your parents could be supportive in that and that you would have an option where to live after if it doesn't work out. Good luck and Congrats on the baby!
2007-03-06 15:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by helloworld 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is something only YOU can answer. Search your heart and soul carefully. Do u love him? Does he love u? Is he good to u? Does he want full responsibility for u and this baby? Never live with or marry someone JUST FOR A CHILD believe it or not its the child who ends up sufferring when theres no love between the parents! If u love each other and want to build a life together than by all means! GO FOR IT! Love is soooo hard to find and once u find it you need to grab ahold of it and hang on for dear life!!! Congradulations on the baby!!!
2007-03-06 16:07:30 · answer #3 · answered by cstinkerbell6969 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definnitely move in with him and start a family..
I did this too at 18 exactly the same, I had been with him for 3 years.
Best thing I ever did, now I am pregnant with my second and I love my life
2007-03-06 15:54:19 · answer #4 · answered by cigaro19 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you living now?
If you think about it, if you move in with him then you will have more help with the baby, that also gives you and him time to learn what it's like to live with eachother, also it will give you two time to bond and grow strong together not too mention he would be their with you through out your whole pregnancy and that would be a big part of you two and make your bond stronger.
I think it would be a great idea if you two moved in with eachother
Good luck!
2007-03-06 15:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by Kasja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's really your decision...I know u came on here for advise but u should listen to yourself. Really think about the situation. Honestly if I was in your shoes then I would consider it. Can u rely on him?? How does he treat u?? How was your relationship in the past?? Do u see a future with him?? Ask yourself these questions and hopefully they will help u...~*Hope I Helped*~
2007-03-06 16:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by 8_letters_3_words_1_meaning 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even thought you are young it looks like you guys are in love cause you are together 3 years... i don't know if it is the right thing but i would say that you should keep your baby and move in with him. good luck
2007-03-06 16:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by athina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. It is always best to be married when you move in and when you have a baby. Sorry but purity is special. so if you plan on marrying the man, you shouldn't wear white.
2007-03-06 16:31:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he have his own place? you have to think about what is best for you and your baby. is it a nice place? is it safe? is there room for you and your baby and him to all live comfortably? if you can answer yes to all of these questions and you love him then why not? and i think it is good he is stepping up and wanting you to live with him so he can help care for the baby it really shows maturity. good luck sweetie.
2007-03-10 13:12:01 · answer #9 · answered by Krystina G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww congrats on the baby
it seem like you really love each other
do what you think is best
2007-03-10 15:45:36 · answer #10 · answered by 789512 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋