I'm supposed to be going to a sleepover on Saturday but my friend is being really bitchy and is gonna ignore me the whole time so how cn I get out of it?
2007-03-06 07:01:52 · 26 answers · asked by Kate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell your "friend" that you are not going to go to a party just to be ignored and that u have much better things to be doing. Don't waste your time with all that pettiness, just concentrate on having fun and being around people u actually like and who treat u like sh*t.Tell her to grow up!! Life's too short...
The worst thing u can do is make up some excuse for not going..tell her exactly why you're not going..because u dont fancy being ignored for the night. If she's any sort of friend she'll cop on and realise how childish that sort of behaviour is.
2007-03-06 07:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn how to say no. Its going to be important to you as you get older. You speak with your friend. Tell her you changed your mind and cannot go to her sleepover. If she asks why...tell her the truth. She doesn't sound like much of a friend anyway. Why would a real friend act bitchy and ignore you??
2007-03-06 07:07:05 · answer #2 · answered by HENRY M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is being mean then just leave her alone for a while and show up at her house Saturday and see how it works out. but if she gets mean when you are at her house call and have someone pick you up. or in the first place just be like, okay you have been mean and ignoring me so why should i sleepover.
2007-03-06 07:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you don't want to go.
Or go and make it fun your own way.
Are there going to be other girls there? Talk to a couple of them before the sleepover, plan something to bring or do so you have someone to hang out with.
If it's just the two of you, then tell her you don't like the way she's been treating you. If she can't respect that, then tell her you would rather stay home.
In the end, you have to do what makes you happy.
2007-03-06 07:14:51 · answer #4 · answered by agentm006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is having this sleepover, Call her and tell her, that you decided not to come, because you don't want to mess up her party, and tell her the real reason, and see what she says. And if it is the friend your talking about having the party then don't go she's not worth being called a friend.
2007-03-06 07:21:15 · answer #5 · answered by lennie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can get out of it. Go to your parents and say can I go over to so and so house for a sleepover and by the way please say no. So when your parents loOK at u funny and say ok no you can't go. Then go to your friend and say my parents said I can't sleep over sorry. This way you are out of going and you are not lying. Good luck!
2007-03-06 07:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you wanna come over but if she is going to be bitchy the two of you will not enjoy the sleep over, ......it's her move!
2007-03-06 07:16:04 · answer #7 · answered by Pink_Zirconia!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you HAVE to give a reason, just opt out by telling your friend something personal (a family thing, for example) came up.
2007-03-06 07:16:35 · answer #8 · answered by Krtyr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. Seriously, a little honesty up front is hard to do but if you let the tensions linger you will have bigger problems later.
2007-03-06 07:17:18 · answer #9 · answered by b_dog92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to observe advise females! its like the most suitable quoutable GNO sleepover action picture ever! its no longer kiddish, yet its also no longer extremely gross both and also you'll snigger your head off. :DD wish that helped
2016-11-28 02:27:10 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋