there is this girl who WAS my bff but then we got in a fight but now we are friends again but now we are getting in a fight again! is this supposed to happen is this a sign that we were meant to be friends or is this a sign that we weren't meant to be friends???please answer quickly i appreciate all help!!!
2007-03-06 06:52:37 · 12 answers · asked by angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
im not sure i do wanna b her frend anymore tho!!?!?!? she has like no other frends tho so i feel guilty if im not frends with her but i feel annoyed and frustrated when i am!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-06 07:21:34 · update #1
i think she talks about me behind my back to!!!none none of my friends like her either!!!
2007-03-06 08:32:43 · update #2
If they are minor things you guys are fighting about, then y'all will eventually grow and mature and put these things aside. If they are major conflicts, then its time to leave this friendship behind and move on. There's no reason to be having this hard of a time with a REAL friend.
2007-03-06 07:02:01 · answer #1 · answered by Java Chip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll give u my addvice.me and my best friend was like last year for some reason we just stopped talking and then one day i saw her and we started talking we were alright for a min but now we are arguing again.i think that if it's really meant for u 2 to be frined s then u guys will try 2 resolve ur problems and try 2 cut down on how much fighting goes on. if u guys really care then u will ask questions befor3 it gets carried away!
REAL TALK
2007-03-06 15:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by kalecia m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been in real tough relationships and I'm telling you its not nice... i was friends with this girl and it was fight friends fight Friends over and over again and now we have split up forever and its devastated us but it is hard but its getting easier and we are moving on now and we are happier and if you are unhappy being around her and the tension between you id building then it is time to move on and i think if you are going to fight again then its not worth it because you need to find your true freinds but if you want to maintain a friendship with her then try and build on to it and talk about how you are feeling and it is a mature thing to do but you should try what you think is best and if you have had another fade ou of her life and be neutral with her and dont become enemies! do whats right for you and her!!!
2007-03-06 15:02:53 · answer #3 · answered by ferret crazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u guys r fighting ALOT like every week then that means u guys r not meant to be friends and if u think she talks about u behind Ur back THAT IS NOT A FRIEND
i am SO sorry to know how u feel good luck
2007-03-13 22:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough question to answer:
I think that a true friend always will come back to you and won't lie or make-fun- of you in front of your face, or AT ALL. And best friends don't always get into large fights...so I'd say to dump her and find a new best friend..
2007-03-06 15:01:12 · answer #5 · answered by Janie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always say it doesn't matter how many fights you get in with a friend what matters is how or if you can forgive them or they can forgive you. If you are true friends than you should be able to get over anything, if you are not than you never really get over the fight that you had.
2007-03-06 15:01:07 · answer #6 · answered by sfkelley81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frenz eventually get into fights but not huge fights maybe a little hitting would involved but if ya'll continue to have these mis fits then it most likely mean ya'll shouldn'[t be frenz
2007-03-06 14:57:41 · answer #7 · answered by carmel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends are like sisters...u fight all the time...but deep down u really love eachother...me and my friends are so close we can make fun of each other without actually hurting the other person's feelings...just try not to be sensitive.
2007-03-06 15:13:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to say this but it means that you both can't get a long. i think you need to try to just be extra nice with her. i am not saying you are a mean person because you seem like a very nice person but some people just want as much as respect as they could ever get. just say hi to her a lot. that shows that you are giving good atention to her. it seems that your friend is very sensitive when it comes to respect. it is all about respect. give her as much as respect as you could. some people just are like that and need a lot more respect than others. you do seem to respect her but i am saying just be extra respectful. that is all there is to it really. just pray to god for help.
2007-03-06 15:02:57 · answer #9 · answered by Matt R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if something bad has come up between you and the one friend, so much so that you need to end the friendship, you have to talk with her. that's the only way to end it
try to endur the one friend for as long as you can. if he/she still acts weird then you have to TALK TO THEM.
or just ditch her. JK
2007-03-06 15:26:35 · answer #10 · answered by tari_whitney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋