sex..is it really a big deal?

Answer 1

Love is a big deal, sex is for fun!!!!

Answer 2

It's a big deal from a variety of perspectives.

1. If done out of love and caring, it leads to a level of sharing and intimacy not possible without it.

2. If done without any consideration at all, it makes one feel used and exposes one to a variety of health risks.

3. If you are woman, it's a big deal because pregnancy is often a possibility.

4. If you are a man, it's a big deal because you might get someone pregnant.

5. If you are in love, you hardly ever feel closer than when you are sharing your body with your lover.

6. If you aren't in love, you will probably never feel more used.

Bottom line, be ready and be consensual. Both parties must equally and readily enter into sex or it's going to be a huge disaster with lasting negative effects.

Answer 3

It's too big of a deal if you ask me, highly overrated for the most part.
But reality is that a relationship without sex is just a friendship, so in the real adult world, yes, sex is a big deal like it or not.

Answer 4

I honestly wouldn't care, but it is a big deal. I am the last in my family and I have the urge to have sex; but I force myself to wait for the right time and place, because rushing into things can be pretty ugly when not down right (Ex: becoming HIV positive, becoming an unready father for an unwanted child, ETC.)

Answer 5

It sure can be - it can also be a deal breaker! Depends on the motive behind the tryst - if just for fun wsith NSA, it can be OK. If it is an expression of love for another, it is a big deal and should be treated as such.

Answer 6

Yes, it is a big deal!
Sometimes it's nice just purely as a physical release, but the best sex is lovemaking... it's a higher state of being.
Without sex, life would be even more empty than it is now >:)

Answer 7

It should not be a big deal if you are in a loving relationship. but it is a big deal if you are just sleeping around.

Answer 8

Complicated question, but here's the answer. Sex is a tool that should be used wisely and maturely. Be careful who you have sex with. Try to limit the amount of partners you have. And, enjoy it when you have it. Remember, some day you'll be old and gray and look back with regrets, so: don't do anybody that you'll regret.

Answer 9

umm yes. people who have sex for fun end up hurting... plus coming down with clams is never fun. sex is a big deal... it is one way aids is spread and as most people know aids kills. people all over the world are forced into the sex slave trade every year, i believe those people think sex is a big deal. children are sexually abused by a parent or stranger those children are hurt and abused for life, for them sex is a big deal. sex sells advertising. sex sells cars, clothes, make-up, tires, and hamburgers. people sell their bodies to make money so they can feed their family or pay some bills. sex hurts people and sex bonds people for life.

having sex with someone is like playing with two different colors of play dough. your blue and your partner is yellow. those two colors blend and become one ball of dough then blue decides to leave yellow, blue will never come off yellow and yellow will never come off blue. mix different people (red green pink purple) and soon blue (you) is a brownishblackish blob without any of your color left because you gave it all away.

yes sex is a big deal

Answer 10

Depends where your answer is coming from.
If it is male and horny man, yes it is.
If it is female and a virgin, not it isn't until you master the game and one day you realise it is important to you as important as for a man.

All has different views to each individual.
And also, you yourself can have different views about it as time goes by....