Whats the best way to have an orgasm ?

Question

i have problems...help me

Answer 1

Do some self exploration to figure out what works best for you, then find a partner that's willing to listen to your wishes or is good at reading your body language, that person will be willing to take the time to make sure you get yours as well as them getting theirs.

Answer 2

I hate to answer this-so embarrassing! Usually, if my man just isn't getting it right *which does happen, sorry hon* He can do whatever he wants, and I can still play with my clitoris. It can be done in most any position, he will LOVE watching *why do you think those one-girl videos are so popular?* and he'll get some pointers on how to touch you the way YOU like it. It is kindof strange the first time, but you and he will get used to it. My man and girlfriend both got so interested in what I was doing, that they asked to just watch and learn haha! Also, if you are trying to have an orgasm from vaginal stimulation, just sit on top, and lean back, way back, and go in small circles just around his "head". And only up and down slightly, so that the head of his penis is hitting the front inner wall of your vag. That's how I found my G-spot! He'll love the view, and everyone knows that his head is the most sensitive area anyways.

Answer 3

This can be a problem for women. Part of the key is to relax. If you are tense or stressed, then you will simply make it harder for yourself.

Secondly, know your bod. You need to have some basic notion of your anatomy. What is where? I like Wikipedia for learning stuff, so start there.

Third, touch yourself. Give yourself a break and don't try for an orgasm right off the bat. Just explore and find out what feels good.

Good luck

Answer 4

To properly answer this question, one would need to know exactly what the problem is. If you are a young woman, perhaps it is common that you haven't experienced an orgasm yet. I would suggest that you get a partner, someone that you truly love and are in love with and experiment with different physical and mental connections. I believe that this occurs naturally when both the mental and physical areas are covered with someone you love. Then again, some people can easily separate sex and love and focus on the physical "spot" that brings them over the edge. You can practice this on your own with fingers or toys, right? Just have fun with it and and allow yourself to let go.

Answer 5

You are not being complete with your question. It could actually be some kind of physical problem or most likely a mental block of some kind. If you consult with your physician first they may be able to help you.

The good thing about this is you need to experiment with different ways to see what works best for you. Some people need aids or "toys" to help gratify themselves while others don't. You just have to try different things to find what will work best for you.

Answer 6

Well there really is no certain technique....different strokes for dofferent folks if you know what i mean. But the first thing you need to know is that orgasms begins mentally. Meaning they take concentration to achieve. But try clitoral stimulation. Try a vibrator. And many women cannot have orgasms from just intercourse alone.

Answer 7

If you're haveing problems... oral. Just grab his head and put it where you wnat it. Dont
be afraid to tell us what you wan't We want to make you have an orgasm. believe it or not.

Answer 8

Manual mainipulation

Answer 9

Stop for a minute and concentrate on yourself and not your partner. Concentrate on your breathing and you you feel. Maneuver your body so that you feel the most excitement and continue to concentrate on you.

Answer 10

call me. hahaha!!!! Let me guess....are you one of those chicks that says you can't " " unless your on top??? If that is so, you are with the wrong dude. My chick told me that before our first time and low and behold I had the cure for that problem. hahah