well im a 32c..and my boyfriend thinks im flat (which im not).. he tells me that i should consider it. we argue all the time and i tell him, id wish his thingy was bigger but i don't complain. he says he will pay for it.. what should i do? i love him and dont want to lose him
2007-03-06 06:16:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Get rid of him, if he loved you he would accept you for who you are. Besides, 32C is a good size. Although if you really want the surgery (and I am stressing the YOU here) then get it, it is on his dime.
2007-03-06 06:23:14 · answer #1 · answered by Troy 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what a winner he is. I love my 32C's and refuse to even consider hacking on them with a knife until the very second they start heading south and losing their perky firmness.
I advise you to do the same.
Oh, and dump the putz with the small thingy. You can do better ;)
2007-03-06 18:31:08 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Blonde Ambition 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are satisfied with your breasts, there is no way you should change them just for him. This is a medical procedure and involves risks, just like any other surgery, and it absolutely should not be done unless YOU want to. Let him know that you are satisfied with your body the way it is, and that it is important to you that he quits asking you to have breast enhancement. If he's unable to comply, find someone who can appreciate you just the way you are - I'm certain you'll have no problem finding many men who will.
2007-03-06 17:03:42 · answer #3 · answered by JenV 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honestly, if you are happy with your body, you shouldn't change! when you get older if you have bigger boobs, you will have the worst back pains! trust me! a 32 c is the perfect size for a chest. clothes fit right, and bathin suits and everything! the bigger they are the more complicated they get! if i were you, i would keep what you have, and just tell him to love you just the way you are.. (he may be in a competition with his friends over chest sizes) good luck!
2007-03-06 14:22:57 · answer #4 · answered by Tori B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey if he can't love you for who you are and for how God made you than he is not the right one for you. There is no need for you to have unnecessary surgery to please a man. think about it this way he does not have to go under the knife, he does not have to deal with the pain after the surgery and he does not have to go out and buy new bras ( which are expensive). Also what happens if you are not happy with the job that is done. This is your body and you have to take care of it for you and only you.
2007-03-06 14:24:38 · answer #5 · answered by historicallyspeaking2003 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
there your boobs not his .. oh by the way hes a BOYFRIEND not your HUSBAND . so do what you want . plus 32c is fine .he should like you the way you are . tell him to go get hiS thingy ENHANCED
2007-03-06 17:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he can't love you for you then find someone else. If he is insulting your breasts he is insulting and abusing you. You sound like you are happy were you are at and you sound fine to me as well. A C cup is a nice size. Be good to yourself and find a man who will love you for you not for boobs. He is obviously immature and stupid. Good Luck!!
2007-03-06 14:38:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't stop with wanting u to get ur breast enlarged...tell him he need to have his Thing made longer LOL
2007-03-06 17:57:00 · answer #8 · answered by Blondiee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should do it for yourself not for anyone else. You know you can end up not liking them and have back aches. Do it for yourself. Look at how this might affect you.
2007-03-06 14:23:33 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think I need to come over there and give you a second opinion.
2007-03-06 14:23:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋