Okay me and my now ex girlfriend were together for 3 years. I broke up with her because we were having to many problems, but i still seem to find myself thinking about her and even though i told her i wasnt in love with her anymore. I still think i do still love her and care for her. Is she feeling the same way because this was the longest relationship for either one of us. And we always told each other how much we love each other. I know just because we are not ment for each other and we broke up doesnt mean the love we had will just go away.
2007-03-06 05:05:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not to be too mean, but yea, I bet she's thinking about you, and especially about you totally rejecting her. Telling someone that after 3 years that you DO NOT love them is a real blow! Just reverse the dilemma, and put yourself in her place? How would you be feeling right now? Pretty darn low huh? So, I'd say what your feeling is nothing compared to what she might be feeling! Did you ask yourself why you had to scoop that low? Why did she deserve that? No-one does! You need to learn to treat others has if they were you. This sure would be a nicer world, wouldn't it?
2007-03-06 05:27:44 · answer #1 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...That feeling???...it doesn't just simply go away...believe me..I know!!! I've had feelings in just about every relationship I've ever had seriously...even when I was being the dumper! You're a human being for crying out loud. You're supposed to have feelings and emotions and tears and joy and all of that human emotional stuff and whatnot! You wouldn't be much of a person my friend if you didn't. I still love all my ex's...and none of em live in Texas!
2007-03-06 13:26:26 · answer #2 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess she does feel the same thing cuz being with someone for 3 years makes the other person grow on you, so even if you don't love him you will miss him
2007-03-06 13:11:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u broke it off with her, u should have thought about it before u did it, your not over her yet. u just didn't have the knowledge to work your problems out in a mature way, doesn't mean she wasn't the right one for u, just means u couldn't work out your troubles.
2007-03-06 13:13:00 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet she does, but did you ever think of asking HER? :)
2007-03-06 13:08:46 · answer #5 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like you were wanting her to fight for you, but it backfired. You can't make her feel anything that you want, you can only work on you and your actions..........................
2007-03-06 13:10:14 · answer #6 · answered by nfgatcer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋