i am not a lesbian but i feel now she may like me more than a friend what do i do
2007-03-06 05:03:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I dont understand....you just said you were a lesbian in your other question....
2007-03-06 07:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by Ballzy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am a lesbian, and those comments from these other people on how its gross is very irritating. But if you do have feelings for her in that way, then tell her. She might feel the same. Plus you were drunk so that could be a reason why. Usually when people are drunk or high they tend to act on their thoughts and emotions at the time.
But its your decision.
2007-03-06 13:31:52 · answer #2 · answered by Demondoll. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of discussion ahead of you. Your best-friend relationship will never be quite the same. What you do from here will determine whether it will be better or worse (or gone).
First, address your alcohol/drug use and your loss of judgment and inhibitions. Is this an ongoing problem? Next, your sexuality and hers. Which sex is she attracted to, mostly? But mostly, have an open discussion with each other about what this incident means in your lives and your friendship.
2007-03-06 13:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by Wise Advice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and let her know that it was a one time thing..tell her you do not wish to persue this any further and that it was fun and you are happy that if it was to happen your glad it happened with her.And if she is gay you are still her friend and will continue to be there for her..just remember what ever happened one night should never be great enough to end a true friendship.
2007-03-06 13:16:04 · answer #4 · answered by rcbrokebones 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not a lesbian but it's possible that you might be Bi. Did you like it? If you did why don't you try going out with her? It might work out.
2007-03-06 13:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by AL IS ON VACATION AND HAS NO PIC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not gay than your bisexual, and there is nothing wrong with being bisexual......I am. You and chloe need to talk face to face about what happened and both of you need to speak honestly about each others feelings. did you enjoy it ?
2007-03-06 13:22:07 · answer #6 · answered by pumkinpie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ewwwwwww. Stop getting wasted. Seriously.
Tell her you are strictly dickly and again....Ewwwwwwwww
2007-03-06 13:07:45 · answer #7 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy!!! At least YOU got some!
2007-03-06 13:08:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her and tell her exactly how you feel.
2007-03-06 13:06:36 · answer #9 · answered by eternallegs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel done.do more and more to to tickle you up both of u
2007-03-06 13:08:24 · answer #10 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋