Why do WHITE MEN always seek FULL custody of the children?

Question

Are white women that incompetent as mothers or is it cutting off your nose to spite your face? Or control?

Answer 1

I don't think you can say ALL white men are that way. You should avoid sweeping generalizations.

Answer 2

This is a first! I am going to leave this as only your opinion, because I do not see this happening where I live in the NW. I feel what ever color a person may be, which ever one is the devoted parent-should have the children if the couple split up. I honestly do see the females being granted the children more, mainly because the courts feel a child should be raised by their mother. I am sure many men would agree with me on that.That's always been a "mean" topic for men-of any color. As for the control part, no one has control of anything-but themselves-unless YOU let them!

Answer 3

Few groups of people "always" do anything...and I know for a fact that white men don't always seek full custody, some don't seek any kind of custody.

Be careful making blanket statements, people will get distracted correcting you rather than commenting on the point you were trying to make...which I assume is why does it appear that white men seek full custody of their children more frequently than men of other races...

My guess would be that men of other races may not desire full custody of their children (as often as white males do...I dunno), versus it being an issue with white women being poor mothers (those come in every race).

...and of course you are also making the assumption that all these white men had kids with white women, not women of another race, so you could make a disparaging remark against white women's parenting skills, versus any race of woman whose male partner attempts to get full custody of a child they had together.

Answer 4

Most men who fight for custody use their children as a possesion with which to control and torment the ex-wife. Many times it is about not wanting to send the ex-wife a dime - even if it would be for the care of the kids.

Fortunately there are a few noble, caring fathers, gentlemen, even decent ex-husbands in this world. I know many excellent mothers - black women, and white women who have raised healthy well balanced kids despite terribly difficult circumstances - and they must, both races of women be applauded.

Answer 5

Not all white men do that. Who wouldn't want full custody of their children? And yes, I think it might also be a control issue. And it not just racial thing. Meaning don't put it all on WHITE men and women.

Answer 6

Ok, you really pissed me off with that statement but I suppose this is a free world, however you really need to be educated on those issues. Seems you may be a bit of a racist even to think of a question like that. For starters, my brother is white and wanting custody of his kids was the last thing on his mind, he wanted his free time. My cousin he is white, he did not want custody, my other cousin is white and Hispanic mixed and he is still fighting from 3 years ago to still get custody. My boyfriend fought and fought to get custody of his son and he is black. This was a huge stereotype and the bottom line is it's the person that you are dealing with, not what color, not what religion..JUST THAT PARTICULAR PERSON.

Answer 7

Best answer was given in Parenting;
AND I SAY THIS AS A WHITE MAN!

White men just don't want to pay child support so they think by trying to get custody they won't have to pay. In some cases there are a lot of other reason to go along with why the men want the children. Also depending on their job a lot of men don't have enough money left over after child support to even support them selves. I know alot of guys that pay over $1000 a month for one kid. I think that is a tad ridiculous.

Answer 8

All is a pretty big word. Not all men do. Maybe just the control freaks that do it because they know it will hurt you, and the aim is to hurt you. Some men might have legitimate concerns though, if the mother is truly unfit. I say if a man tries to claim the kid at all, the way a lot of dudes just run off, that's pretty noble. Again, unless he's just doing it to get to the mother.

Answer 9

That is what I see and have expreienced although I would use the word "generally." . Black and Asian and Hispanic men usually want to share custody. White men, it is all about control. When my husband could no longer control me with the love I had for him, he started in with threats concerning the children. And these psycho Fathers' Rights Groups. Have you read about some of the leaders? Misogynist through and through.

Answer 10

White men do not always seek full custody. Why does race have anything to do with this? Everyone has different reasons for seeking full custody.

Answer 11

ok, I actual have regarded in any respect your previous questions and that they provide the effect of being slightly racist. Being a sturdy discern has not something to do jointly with your pores and skin colour. Many adult adult males, of all races, love their babies. And why can't this is relating to the youngsters extra and scuffling with much less? additionally I ask: How come it somewhat is often a majority of black women persons on Maury attempting out 15 adult adult males to verify who's the daddy of her infant? Does that propose they're slutty or in simple terms don't be attentive to what a condom is? See it could flow the two strategies once you decide on someone on race.