I keep having really bad dreams about my boyfriend and i'd love to know 1) wat they mean and 2) if there is any way for me to stop them happening and to have a nice sleep.
Basically in my dreams he is unfaithful to me all the time.. he ends up gettin physically involved with girls that i dont no.. in my dreams he's even been cheating on me with my best friend and then having sexual relations with his mother! i know it sounds sick but thats y i need ur help to help me figure them out and try and stop them!!
The funny thing is i trust him 110% more than iv ever trusted any other guy.. it isn't in his personality to cheat on me i know that he wouldn't do it to me he just couldn't and im so sure of it.. people have said its in my unconcious mind that im worried he'll do it but im so sure he wont? i have had trust issues in the past where ex's have cheated.. wat can i do plz help!!
I really don't want it to effect my relationship i love him with all my heart. = )
2007-03-06 04:53:19 · 10 answers · asked by cheekyluv 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
When trying to decipher your dreams try to recall as much as possible colors, surroundings, clothes, etc. Once you have a list of everything you can think of next to each try and determine the meaning of everything as it would be to you. For example What is he wearing? What are the hair colors of each person? Where is each situation taking place? A house? An apartment? Do you recognize any of these places? Make a list of everything, every little detail you can remember, then try to determine what each detail represents/symbolizes to you. Once the list is complete you should have alot of information to determine what the meaning behind the dreams are. If you can figure out what your subconcious is trying to tell you, you might be able to have a good nights sleep again. You are probably just expressing your distrust for men that you care for in your dreams, being that you have had a problem with cheating ex's in the past naturally you find a man you can trust and have faith in and it scares you that you might be wrong and what would be worse than him cheating? Him cheating with your close friends and relatives, the ultimate betrayal. Hope you can figure it out.
2007-03-06 05:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by cheesussinclair 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, indicates your fears of being abandoned. You may feel a lack of attention in the relationship. Alternatively, you may feel that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others. This notion may stem from issues of trust or self-esteem. The dream could also indicate that you are unconsciously picking up hints and cues that your significant other is not being completely truth or is not fully committed in the relationship
To dream of incestuous practices, signifies erotic desires. It may also be representative of the union between masculine and feminine aspects of yourself. You are in a phase in your life where you are not quite a child and not quite an adult, and thus this dream may be symbolic of the merging of the child and adult within yourself.
2007-03-06 05:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well according to dream analysis by Alan Pollock world renowned dream expert dreaming about your partner being unfaithful means that your own future is going to be happier than you view it now or Mabye you are going through a difficult time in your life at the moment but there is light at the end of the dark tunnel - i wouldn't worry about it it also states that when you have this break through the dreams should stop.
2007-03-06 06:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by kissaled 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Build up your self esteem/confidence. If you depend on someone else for your happinees you'll be let down everytime. The dreams show your insecurity and some sexual fantasy. Trust is an issue here too.
2007-03-06 05:05:07 · answer #4 · answered by joe angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darlin', dreams are almost always about YOU. Your subconscious is trying to speak to your conscious mind, and it uses the language of images. Your boyfriend represents some part or dynamic inside you, probably. Try to look at all the images and think about what they mean to you individually, then try to get a feeling about what the whole dream is about. What does your bf mean to you, and why might your subconscious be using him to star as a certain part of you?
Robert Johnson has a great book called "inner work" about working with dreams. It really works.
Good luck.
2007-03-06 05:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most women have these dreams. I had one about one of my ex's and my mom (my mom is 17 years older then me and he was closer to his age) I knew he would never do that to me or with anyone else EVER. I pushed it off as just a bad dream and stopped having them. You have a past of bad relationships so its your mind trying to protect you is all. When in your heart you know that its not right. So listen to your friends.
2007-03-06 05:05:20 · answer #6 · answered by Arizona Chick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your insecurities coming to light in a dream. In daylight you may trust him but deep down due to your previous experience you almost expect him to. Seek self counselling.... just talking to a professional can help.
2007-03-06 05:02:07 · answer #7 · answered by jaided_icemaiden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfaithful- A very good omen foretelling a prosperous future
I got it from here: http://www.greatwebinfo.com/dreams1dicT.htm
Not sure how true it is. You can always search the web for more possibilities. But it's always good to believe what's nice on the ears, so BELIEVE IT!! :)
2007-03-06 05:01:23 · answer #8 · answered by gojo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably a site like http://www.IhadADreamLastNight.com will help you out. There is a lot of content regarding dreams there.
2007-03-07 18:20:05 · answer #9 · answered by expertdreams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check out "recurring dreams" and "cheating in dreams' at
2007-03-06 12:33:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋