My ex girl friend want to come bact. I love her really. When she left i wan,st really happy but am excited she is coming back. However, when she wan,st with me i met another girl i equally like. Am now in a fix and do not know how to handle the situation.
2007-03-06 04:42:07 · 24 answers · asked by lovely 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You have a really hard decision to make and unfortunatly know one can really give you an answer to it.
2007-03-06 04:46:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, move on and stay with the new girl.
You are an ex for a reason, you have outgrown each other and both of you have moved on.
it was nice while it lasted but it is over. There might be some residual feelings but they only reflect the good times and not the bad. Remember about the fights and upsets and why you broke up.
Don't be a dope and fall back into this old pattern.
You have started something new... you should have gotten over the old one before you started up with someone new.
that is only fair to the new gf.
Two steps forward and no steps back.
It might seem all good and dreamy and la di dah,
but honey the pot will boil soon and you will have lost your new gf who probably is a better choice for you.
Each relationship teaches you a lesson and hopefully you have learned one from your last gf.
Wake up and sniff the coffee Bud, now is where it is at.........
The past is the past. This is now... live for now and the future or you won't live at all.....
2007-03-06 04:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your ex-girlfriend had her chance to love you and keep you, but it didn't work out for you two. Give your new girlfriend an opportunity before you kick her to the curb. She deserves the same love, affection and attention as you gave your ex when she had her chance. If you don't think you can really give your all to your new gf and it causes your mind to drift and you contemplate cheating, let your new gf go. She doesn't deserve to be in the middle of a love triangle and end up hurt. Let your old gf know that she can't just pop up and profess her love while you are in the middle of a loving relationship. That's selfish on her part. If she wanted you, she'll be respectful. She'd hate it if she was the new gf and you were contemplating whether or not you should be w/ her. Just remember the golden rule. Good Luck.
2007-03-06 04:56:01 · answer #3 · answered by lamonross80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no use asking others! Really! All you can do is LISTEN TO YOUR HEART!!! If you broke up with your ex the last time, there's a big chance you'll break up again! So, I'd say to try again with another girl! But this is just a personal opinion! You really must do what you think best for you !!! :))
2007-03-06 05:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by boy_out_of_hell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does you ex know about the new woman you met? If she does, she could be motivated by this fact... it's not good until someone else wants it. Questions of choosing one over the other could be a sign that you aren't ready to settle with one... date more.
2007-03-06 04:46:23 · answer #5 · answered by frogsandweeniedogs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know i was in the same situation 2 was in love with my 2 exs and i just chose the one that i really had feelings 4.
2007-03-06 04:49:45 · answer #6 · answered by Tamy T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should stick with the new girl because after all the other one left you hanging so why hurt the girl who has done nothing to hurt you see where this relationship goes because you already seen how the other one did plus your ex is probably just jealous of your new happiness
2007-03-06 04:48:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if ur ex left u, go out with the other girl. if u left ur ex then go out wit ur ex. Because your ex left u and thats wrong even tho and no matter how much she wants to come back. SO GO OUT WITH THE OTHER GIRL!!! (seeing how ur ex left u)
2007-03-06 04:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by Squeaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rememer and ex is an ex for a reason, stay with the new girl.
2007-03-06 04:44:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to rememder that your ex left you. you meet someone eles and you are happy stick with the one you have now
2007-03-06 04:52:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋