I am wondering if my relationship with my boyfriend is coming to an end or not...we have been dating 3yrs now (on and off) and he just doesnt treat me good enough, or at least that's my story and i'm sticking to it. On one hand i wouldnt really mind that much if we broke-up, but on the other I am afriad of losing my friend. I can't accept that this realationship was a faliure, and that very thought crushes my heart. I need to move on i guess, but it seems easier to me to not have to deal with the pain...even though i know one day i will be forced to deal with it. The feeling of uncertainty drives me NUTS, literally when it's at its worst, is unbearable!!! I do love him very much, and we get along great- he just isnt that into me like i need/want him to be. What should i do?? Be patient and hope it works out for the best...or take my chances of losing what could be the love of my life. HELP??!! LOL :)
2007-03-06 04:33:46 · 3 answers · asked by Amy L 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You have to wait and let him be.
2007-03-06 04:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by Ame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he is your friend for life - that is, even if your boyfriend girlfriend situation ends, would he still want you to be a part of his life....Then- you will find out if your fears are legit or not. The love of your life would not put you this ambiguous phase...
2007-03-06 12:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eww. You just used LOL in an unnecessary, disgusting, ugly, idiotic way. For the sake of us all, please don't do it again.
I suggest you just give him the usual "let's be friends" speech.
2007-03-06 12:40:23 · answer #3 · answered by Buchyex 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋