a friend of mine is seeing a boy...alright thats normal enough but she seems to have forgotten about her friends, either shes with him or shes with him AND her friends. hes always there and i can never speak to her alone whenever i call her shes with him and so on...im not the only one who feels this way either a few other people have too. she doesnt know what shes doing and is extremely sensitive so i dont want to upset her. i miss her even though i see her everyday at college and am being pushed together with other people as a result. she wants to bring him on our girls holiday and feels discluded when we dont invite her places...her boyfriend is nice enough but we want to spend time with her and not him how can i tell her without damaging our friendship and making her feel as though we have been bitching about her behind her back?
2007-03-06 04:32:35 · 7 answers · asked by umbrellophone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
look this is not easy but your friend will realise in time that she needs to spend time with friends and with her new boyfriend just be there when she does call cus all us females have done this at some point or anouther if u stay friends she will now no matter wat that u there wen she needs u good luck
2007-03-06 05:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by sarah-lou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, when it all goes t*ts up, she will come running back to her friends for a shoulder to cry on. Of course you will do the right thing and be there for her. It happens to us all once in a while!
If she's serious about this boy and it ends up being long term, she will eventually get fed up of seeing him all the time and start setting aside more time for her friends.
Support your friend in this transition in her life, it will be you one day!
2007-03-06 04:39:42 · answer #2 · answered by Dogsbody 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will get over this phase either by finishing it, or becoming his wife. Either way she will come round to the fact that she doesn't want to be in his presence all the time, and she needs her friends. Wait until she needs your shoulder to cry on for one reason or another. She will still want you to be there for her.
Things will get back to normal in time, don't worry.
2007-03-06 05:04:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Women's International Day is Thursday, why don't you suggest that ye girls do something to celebrate it. its a good excuse and maybe ye would be able to talk more freely. best of luck
2007-03-06 05:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by Busybee yep! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her keep inviting her out don't critsize him and don't judge.Same thing happend to my friend he beat her and then she came to me and said I came to you because you were always there for me just keep in touch but let her have her space good luck
2007-03-06 05:27:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of people suffer from this. Then we find our own partner and do the same thing! HTH LOL
2007-03-06 04:39:16 · answer #6 · answered by R.E.M.E. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you had beter get use to it if you say somthing to her she could chose him over you be sides that it could happen to you one day
2007-03-06 04:41:57 · answer #7 · answered by roy m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋