can any one give me some good solution??????

Question

iam 9 months pregnant and now hubby is leaving to us on h1-b visa.he might be there for 3years or so .now my problem is that i cant join him as iam pregnant and after the baby arrive i cant join him for atleast 1 year and even if hubby calls me,he says he will not be able to afford that much so he wants me to stay just for 6 months or so.the other problem is FIL,my MIL expired so FIL is alone and my hubby is papa´ s boy he dont want to leave his father alone and he wants me to take care of him.he didnt say that but thats the only reason he dont want me to be with him and he said that he will call me and his father togther to us,is this possible?is he eligiable for the visa?as any other girl i also want to live my life with hubby alone as my relation with FIL is not good.hes very greedy.iam very depressed about this can any one help me with this problem? my FILwants htheir daughters to be happy with their husbands but when its comes to me their dont care this really hurts me.FIL is very happy his son is going to us bcoz now he can spend as much as he can and he belive his son will call him to us.this people are really very partial.what should i do now?i even had not asked my hubby about calling me there as now iam worried about my delivery.whenever some topic arise about this FILcut the topic.he say will see that and this people are not even issuing my passport their are saying 3 months after the child is born we will arrange for the passport so that even child name can be added. is it like that, only after 3 months we can make??help me pls???

one more thing to add ,my hubby is very loving and caring but when it comes to his father his heart melts down

Answer 1

well he should be that way to his father.I dont know about visas and such but you check with the State Dept or the imigration dept..I believe a family should be to gether.You are in my prayers.

Answer 2

good golly---too long and complicated...