help TTC second time round?

Question

Me and my husband tried for four year before falling pregnant, after a couple of years trying we sought the docs help who sent us in for tests, i came back fine but my husband had a low sperm count and a majority of them had abnormalities. my husband got an appoinment to c the urologist but then had to cancel as i found out i was pregnent, i now have a 15month old son but are now trying for another and have been for nearly a year. we follow a generally balanced diet and excercise moderatly we dont really drink either. is there anything else we can do other than to keep check of my cycle for when im ovulatin and doin the usual leadin helthy life style. also does anyone know what will happen when we go back to the docs to investigate, will they go through the who process again of seaman analysis and bloods n stuff or will they take the information of the previous tests we have had. any help would be much appreciated
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Answer 1

i am in the same situation as you i have a 20 month old son and we tried for 2 years for him, just as my husband was about to have the tests i fell pregnant, i had blood tests done but nothing came back from that. well today i went to see the doctor and said to him that we have been trying again and it has been about a year now since we started trying but with no success again but he sad that he would not do anything until we have been trying for at least two years again and when that time is up we would have to have all of the tests again, but he did say because i already have a child there should be no reason why i can't fall pregnant again. when you are trying for a baby you are more stressed because all is on your mind is baby baby baby and you find it harder to become pregnant. forget about getting pregnant stop trying and relax you will find that you will become pregnant in no time that is what i did the first time round i gave up trying stopped stressing about it and stopped thinking about getting pregnant and within about 2 months i was pregnant, believe me i was crying every night about it and it just made me worse. now i am trying again i am crying most nights, stressing, the lot like i did the first time round, so i am just going to do what i did the first time round give up, stop thinking about it and let nature take its cause. don't let it get you down like i have good luck with trying and i hope you are successfull

Answer 2

You should start by not wanting to get pregnant, just have sex everyday or every other day and don't think about getting pregnant, just have fun with your partner. Get more useful information and guides to get pregnant here https://tr.im/IvESk
after sex-put a pillow under your butt or prop your feet up on the wall so your pelvis is tilted
eat healthy
back off caffiene
workout, even if its just a 20 minute walk a day, be active.