why a women who is having an affair wont talk to her husgband?

Question

she left me with our you7ng children will she regret it one day or dont she give a damm

Answer 1

who knows

Answer 2

She won't talk to you right now because she's totally blinded. This person has probably been giving her emotionally, what she felt like she was lacking at home. Everything seems greener. He says all the right things. She might not see it right now, but you're right. She will regret it one day. Especially when her children seek her out and ask her why. Everything we do "comes home to roost". But that's not for you to decide. That's the higher power's department...(or the man upstairs or whatever you want to call him or her) Your job is to get yourself and your children through this. Be there for them. Try to be strong. Some day, you'll realize that however painful this is, it taught you something, and made you stronger. Maybe you needed to learn a lesson of endurance, so you'd be stronger, or heart break so you'd be more compassionate. You may never know. But know this. You're not the first one to go through this, and you won't be the last. There's a reason for this, and it stinks right now, but you'll learn from it. There's a lesson for her too, trust me. He'll prolly dump her for someone else, and she'll hate that she gave up being a wife and a mother for the jerk. Hang in there. Don't let the bitterness you feel right now define who you BECOME. Stand strong.

Answer 3

Who cares? I mean, actions speak louder then words, right? And if she does open her mouth, there is a good chance that she will be lying or trying to lay the quilt on someone else for the way she acts anyway. Why would you want to talk with someone like this woman. Frankly, she isnt worth the time it would take to listen to her. She is simply a s l u t and should be viewed and treated as so. The husband should simply be happy that she has given him the scriptural reason to divorce her and maybe pursue a happy life.

Answer 4

Obviously right now she does give a dam...about HERSELF! People are different. She may regret it she may not. Depends on her. Some people don't like to admit to them selves when they have done wrong it's never a good feeling. It's even worse when the have to own up to the fact that they have hurt others.
I am sorry for your loss. But you now have a child to care for. At least she gave you that, look at it as a blessing.

Answer 5

No idea why women who are not happy and have children just can't say it. My brothers wife did the same thing to him, and has hardly nothing to do with the children. I think it's some kind of mid life crisis. I am sorry for you. Good luck.

Answer 6

she knows what she has done is wrong, and that she has been unfair to him, if she talked to him, she would also have to admit she did wrong, and for some people that's uncomfortable, so they run away, reuse to talk, just act like a coward. the last thing she wants to do is have to look at the husband she betrayed.

Answer 7

Well for a start he could force her to move out of the home she does not want to rock the boat in other words she wants her cake and eat it.

Answer 8

because she too busy thinking of when she's next gonna get her brains blown out by her lover boy...
my ex-wife ran off with another bloke and to this day i still don't understand..... mind you i wouldn't p*ss on her if she was on fire

been there mate it's a bummer

Answer 9

embarrassment... shame.. worried about not being able to sue HIM for divorce and take 1/2 of everything he has worked so hard for... she blew it.. (in Calif at least).. if he is ok with it..it;s just sex right?/ just a transference of energy..

he should have a few flings too..

Answer 10

Because she is no longer interested in her husband , she is more interested in the affair.

Answer 11

Guilt, Shame, Dont care about him no more, more to story than she cares to share, she isn't ready too, etc.