i dont know whats wrong with me..lately i feel really depressed...my best friend gave up on me..he said there is no solution...it all started when he got his g.f. he stopped giving me the attention he used to give me and now all i do is cry because i miss him...i miss hanging and talking with him...he left me out..how do i yank him out of my head?
2007-03-06 03:57:33 · 14 answers · asked by ?????????? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i got a boyfriend but its not working...there has been times where our friendhsip has ended but i always go back and cry to him...its like i cant live without him..i dont know why..i got problems..i know hes not a god friend..i know but i cant let him go..i love him like a brother
2007-03-06 04:08:21 · update #1
you were having depression issues long before your friend got a boyfriend. he didn't give up on you. you are giving up on yourself. please get help TODAY! tell an adult that you need help. there are medications out there that help with depression.
You are worth it. please get help so you can help yourself!!!
2007-03-06 04:03:18 · answer #1 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend did the exact same thing to me for awhile, but we still talk. not all is lost Hun.why don't you call him and ask him if he want to hang out and you should tell him that you are feeling like he doesn't care about your friend ship.Though when you tell him you need to have it just be you and him where there can be no interruptions, and talk to him calmly. i know that it will be hard but once you get out how you feel and do it calmly, he should see the hurt feelings that you have. and i agree that he should still give you attention but you also do have to realize that he cant give you as much attention because he had a g/f, and not to sound rude but it does to me sound like you have a crush on him, and are a little jealous. If that is the case then you need to tell him that you like him, and always have and that you will be there for him, even if it is just as a friend. good luck
2007-03-06 12:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by Linds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried to tell them how you feel. It might help. If they know how much this was hurting you than maybe they would try to spend more time with you or try to include you a little bit more. if you aren't comfortable doing this or it doesn't change anything then I think that you will need to try and move on. Clearly your friendship didn't mean as much to them as it does to you. I am sure that you are a wonderful person and deserve to have friends that care as much about you as you do them. Try to cheer up honey!
2007-03-06 12:26:41 · answer #3 · answered by tinytinkbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well her's a flash for you he isn't the only guy in the world. you can make friends everywhere and lots of them if you try. SO forget him and move on and find other friends you can hang out with and not worry. Alos need to chat more just IM me anytime.
2007-03-06 12:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you miss the attention but please stop crying. He has needs and chose to fill them with finding a girlfriend. Give him some time. Remember he is your best friend but there are some things that you could not do for him so please understand.
2007-03-06 12:07:46 · answer #5 · answered by ann t 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u really can't get him out of ur mind and life because they will always be there. u just need to remember the good times u had together and except that he's happy with her.
2007-03-06 12:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by bride 2 be in 07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your are either jealous or you like him not just as a friend. Maybe if you get a boyfriend it won't seem that way and you'll get more attention from him.
2007-03-06 12:04:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you can talk to this guy n tell him how you feel n if he doesnt feel bad at all then obviously hes not a very good friend and u need to try n get past him
2007-03-06 12:02:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well start talking to other people, make more friends. or you could confront him ask him why you cant be friends, i think ,that was mean of him. talk to someone about yr depression. dont let it consume you.
2007-03-06 12:07:28 · answer #9 · answered by SD18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you called him your best frind? more like you love him. i know one solution that can help you. tell him how u feel or get yourself a boyfriend.
2007-03-06 12:10:11 · answer #10 · answered by MiSz JaY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋