he spent 12 years of his life falling in love with this woman....when he finally tells her how he feels....she breaks his heart....fast forward to now......he's a really cool guy...but can he really fall in love with someone else...or is he just so devistated and just waiting for a chance with her?
2007-03-06 03:55:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How cool can he be if it took him 12 years to "fall in love" with someone just to be totally wrong. His compass and antenna are off. They will continue to be wrong next time and take more than 12 years. You are wasting your time trying to "save" someone as your own conquest unless, of course, you have nothing to do for the next 12 years
2007-03-06 04:01:26 · answer #1 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Were they even together or was he just in love from afar?? If so, what he was feeling was obsession, not love. Love is euphoric anyway. True love is after the euphoric feelings wear off and real work begins. Both people working hard is true love. Of course he can love again. However, if his pattern is waiting 12 years to express himself, he may never find anyone. He needs to be honest with himself and those he likes/loves. If he's still hung up over this girl, he won't be able to commit to anyone until he gets over her because his heart won't be free. He really needs to move on.
2007-03-06 12:06:16 · answer #2 · answered by Bex 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he can fall in love with someone else, but only after he has accepted that things will never work out for him and the other girl. he has to accept the truth, for as long as he carries this torch for her, no other can get in his heart. he may need some therapy to get over this. so don't start a new relationship with someone who is still in love with another.
2007-03-06 13:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends. He probably still has feelings for the other girl, but he's also really hurt. Getting with another woman would actually help him get over the chick who broke his heart.
2007-03-06 12:14:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will definitely need lots of time and to find a woman with lots of patience to show him there is woman who will love him back and care for him.
2007-03-06 12:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course he can love someone else..
"Love springs eternal in the human breast"
2007-03-06 11:59:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well he needs time..you cant expect him to just be over her in a few days..
2007-03-06 11:58:50 · answer #7 · answered by cathy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
EVERYONE is "get-over-able"...EVERYONE.
2007-03-06 12:05:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋